I believe I am looking for what everyone searches for. A soul mate and a best friend
to share life's UPS and DOWNS with. I have children..I care for and about, 28,24 and 13. We are the sum of where we have been and what we have learned. Tired of the cat and mouse game. I despise covert and dishonesty or anyone who can justify it in their
own minds. I am a loving, caring, honest and at times a bit pius about my beliefs. Morals and values matter to me. I am not a fanatic however, nor can I quote bible. I walk the walk though. I write(my spelling is horrible) but I work long hours in a medical office so it is sporatic. I also advocate when asked. I am the definition of Irish. I like whiskey(social drinker happy drunk). I am a humanitarian type, funny, least my friends and co-workers think I am. Self sufficiant, finacially independent..but tired of being alone. I have been committed to raising my kids..but they are getting older now. My only real aspirations in life is peace, mind and soul with someone to share that with. I try to be the best person I can. I had a soul mate once..looking for that again. I will respond to mail. Will not run out and just meet anyone on first
contact. The tall one in the picture is my 13 yr. I like most music, Jazz, R&B, Blues
some Country, not Rap. I am a home body by nature (home is where the heart is) but like to go out, movies, play pool, although not great at it, and bowling, fishing I like but have not done in awhile. I am, by reports a very good cook but don't have as
much time as I would like to do it.I like some outdoors but not in the humid months. Shy at first. I am full figured. I am working on quitting smoking down to about 6 on a good day, more for health reasons, that and I want to live long enough to spend my children's inheritance. I have a sarcastice, but not hurtful, off the cuff at times, told unique, animated sense of humor. I can usually get a smile. My best features I think are my eyes, smile, nature. My worst features I believe is my reaction to in-justice to anyone. That's the "getting the Irish up". Looking for a man, responsible kind and knows his own mind. I'm 50, I know I'm 50 and I know I'm not dead,emotion-
ally or physically. Looking for someone to complete my life. Thanks for the read. I will respond to e-mails.

Open to ideas, probably quiet so we can talk.