Ok seriously I'm not here to waste anyone's time .. mine or yours .. I am a very down to earth person who always tries to see the good in people .. I am a realist .. I know who I am and what I want in life .. and I refuse to settle for anything less .. and to be honest I dont think anyone should .. I guess I am a "what you see is what you get" kinda guy .. I wear my heart on my sleeve and I have learned that in life if you want something real you have to be real in who you are .. the person you would meet on the first day .. would be the same person who you would get to know over time .. well maybe minus a that lil nervousness

I work in a job where I never had to, as a man, question my heart and strength .. I think the plus side of that is I learned a real man isnt about how you act macho or "tough" but in how you stand true to who you are .. the bad side is I know alot of law enforcement officers who truly have issues .. there are some who flock to this profession because of the "power" they feel from it .. (these are usually the kid who was picked on in High school lol) .. but seriously I can tell you that is NOT who I am .. and not who MOST of us are but I can't deny the stereotype that exists .. I am proud of what I do and who I am .. so I would never deny or hid it

to be short .. Im just me .. im not perfect nor am i looking for a perfect person .. I have a good job .. great friends and an awesome family .. I guess all I want is to find someone amazing to share it all with .. life is about the little things .. tiny everyday moments that make the good days GREAT .. and the bad days not so horrible to deal with

well thats a lil bit of who I am .. if you would like to know more .. message me ... add me .. kick me in the shin lol what ever works

The Top Ten reasons to date me
10 I shower (daily even)
9 I brush my teeth 3 times a day
8 I'm savy enough to know Red roses mean love .. Yellow friendship and black theres something wrong with you
7 I really do have a fire place
6 I live a few blocks from the beach but I dont call everyone DUDE
5 I am very personable and can make friends anywhere
4 I have two eyebrows
3 I do my own laundry
2 I have a full head of hair which is not chemically induced
and the number 1 reason to go on a date with me
1 I will show up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I dont believe its a where but a who .. as long as you can meet .. talk and truly get to know a lil about the person .. it works for me .. I mean how do you know if you truly click with someone if you go sky diving as a first date and the only conversation is you screaming at each other