Are you missing someone in your life, is your household missing a man, a father figure, a partner? Do you want someone to love, someone to build a life with, someone special?



What I want is to find a loving woman who is looking for someone first and foremost to love and be a partner with. Secondary I want and need to be part of a family again. I am extremely good with children, but can't see myself starting from scratch. There are far too many good single mothers out there, needing a partner, someone to help and complete what is likely an emptiness in the home.



This doesn't mean I am looking to take over anyone else's responsibility, nor does it mean that any woman will do, after losing in perceived love, now I believe my soul mate is waiting for me, is that you? To find out it just takes a simple message to explorer the possibilities.



A nice guy, handsome, witty, worldly, smart, interests include World affairs and politics, horticulture, aquatics, dancing, history, outer-space. I love playing chess. Music includes deep house, Psychedelic Goa, Country, All time favourites stations, classical, and anything else except for gangster rap and crap music like that. I am well rounded and can easily adapt and interact withmy surroundings, from country barn to 5-star hotels, from poor to rich, from dumb as dirt to mensa members, from Canada to China, in my eyes, everyone is equal, everyone deserve to have happiness during our one chance in life.



I have been a salesman for many years, but my true vocational desires were horticulture, ECE teacher, pet store owner, or stay at home dad/home office. The first two are not possible anymore due to my age, not old, simple not young enough for back breaking landscaping or changing diapers for 4 years, both jobs paying $10 to $14 an hour. The others might still be possible.



Easy going, my motto is Peace, Love and Joy - Peace, is accepting differences, finding solutions, making common ground, avoiding drama, fighting, conflict for the greater good, yes I believe that world peace is possible. Love is forgiveness, compassion, trust, deep bonds, caring, energy and hope, everyone needs and deserves love. Joy is having fun, doing things, laughing, playing gaming, enjoying life and being happy.



The opposite of what I need and unfortunately I have been receiving for a few years now is drama, fighting, anger and negative actions, hate, hostilities which I have no patients for and has suffocated me to isolation, but no longer.



My ideal life would include a huge property to design and create beautiful landscaping, teaching children how to respect and care for nature. A beautiful partner who is down to earth, good mother, smart, understanding and genuine. I could get back to community work and helping others. Really ideal a stay-at-home father with two or three children. I simply need to give all this love I have to a family who wants and needs it.



Not to much to ask eh? I could continue but what would we have to talk about when we meet.

A nice bottle of wine, warm moon filled night, sitting on my deck listening to you tell me your dreams, listening to some soft music. We would laugh out loud, there would be awkward silences, and electric energy bouncing around like fire flies. Cuddle up watch a movie, feeling instant comfort with the warmth of each other.