I woke up this morning 30 minutes after I should have woken up. On the way to the shower, I banged my toe on the edge of the bed..(ouch). Limping on one foot, I went into the closet to throw on a suit, and couldn't find one of the brown belts. (a man's shoes should always match his belt). Ran downstairs to find my car keys and they were no where in sight. But guess what? I still have a smile on my face. Why you may ask...because today is another day to accomplish something extra-ordinary. But if I get into the office and find a window washer's butt crack plastered onto the outside of my window, I just might lose it.. lol Why I'm here...I survived a Piranah attack in the jungles of Brazil, only to find out that my ex-girlfriend was dating a cross-dressing TV evangelist. lol Just kidding. I'm a spontaneous open-minded man who enjoys living life to the fullest. Up for a spontaneous trip to the Bahamas?. If you answered 'yes', then keep reading. (I will do something like this out of the blue)I'm ambitious, successful, goal-oriented and know how to get what I want. Confidence is a sexy thing to me. Family is also very important to me.. as it should be of course. I'm sincere and don't have the time to play games; unless it's a round of Twister. I'm looking for the same in a woman. Someone with a good heart to begin with, someone who's positive, fun and spontaneous and who isn't afraid of a challenge. Someone who isn't afraid to say what they think. I want someone with passion. Heck..let me sum it up with this simple line. I want a real woman!! PS. No booty calls please. I sleep very soundly at night!! I'll give you all a hint about me. If you can make me laugh, then you're 60% of the way there. But by no means does that imply that I'm easy. lol Dinner by candle light..two glasses of wine by a roaring fire..hmm.. something's missing. Could that be you?? :-) PS.Please don't be offended if I don't reply back right away. Not being rude. It's simply one of two things: 1) I probably haven't gotten to your message yet 2) You may not be the right woman for me. Everyone won't neccesarily be a match for you. But If I do respond, then there's possibly something about you that somehow stood out from the rest and caught my eye.

I don't think there's an ideal formula for a first date. But it definitely helps if the activity planned allows both people to communicate and get to know each other. i.e dinner, great wine, followed by a walk on the boardwalk. That being said, no movies on a first date!! lol It would defeat the purpose above. lol But when it's all ssaid and done, if the date ends with the desire for a second, then things went well.