so here's where you just say it...I'm handsome and fit, fun and very funny (no, seriously:) yet with a serious and sensitive side as well. I'm warm, affectionate, compassionate, empathetic and loyal. Very creative and quick in my thinking and spend some time “outside the box” but am smart enough to know when to conform.

I'm looking for a woman who wants a man to enhance her life, but not be her life. I believe that EQ and street smarts are more important than IQ and book smarts, if you have both all the better.

I believe in relationships based on honesty and integrity and looking for someone who wants to team up and take advantage of all the good stuff life has to offer. You should be strong enough to voice your opinion and be open minded to hearing mine too.
If this sounds appealing, let’s get together.

To me a first date isn't an opportunity to "wow" someone but rather a chance for us both to be ourselves and see how we click. If that goes well there's plenty of time for mutual "wowing". That said chemistry is important to me as well.
I'd meet for a drink or a coffee and if we're up for it, enjoy a nice dinner together and keep the conversation going.