Other than some of the unorthodox ways that I raise my children, I am rather old-fashioned. I think men should work and women should take care of the children and the home...and then do whatever else they want to do. This is how I envision it: He will be enchanted by me and my little brood - interested in everything we do and totally taken with who/how we are, even though who/how we are is sometimes difficult to understand or agree with! Nevertheless, he thinks we are the cherry on top, and he just wants to be around to love (provide for, protect) and enjoy us. And we'll love him right back!

BUT...if you're not smarter than I am (and I'm extremely intelligent...better double check your grammar); if you're not Jewish (or willing to convert); and if you don't want to be married with the possibility of having more children, then don't waste your time. You would NOT be happy with me.

I expect that the man will choose where we'll go and what we'll do. He will call to ask me for a date, he will follow up with the arrangements, he will be sure I have everything I need for the date (babysitter, appropriate attire, etc.), he will pick me up on time in a limo (okay - I'm pushing it), he will open doors, pull out chairs, help me with my coat...he will be a perfect gentleman and, with a little bit of "edge," will treat me like the lady that I am.