I am a very direct person with a very dry sense of humor and honest to a fault, but at the same time I’m very sweet and caring. I like long walks and longer conversations. I enjoy cooking with and for people who are special to me. I’m a sucker for extended sessions of kissing and cuddling and marathons of good (or bad) movies. While I’m not completely opposed to the idea of dating a woman with a child, I’m not looking to become an instant daddy and would only become a part of the child’s life once I was convinced that my relationship with the mother was stable.

I’m kind of a well-adjusted split personality and need someone who can keep up. Someone who can be incredibly serious one minute and silly as hell the next. Someone who is child-like without being childish. Someone who is equal parts lady and vixen. Someone who is as comfortable playing Scrabble and sharing a bottle of wine as they are drinking beer in the periphery of a mosh pit at a concert. Someone who has a bit of freak and geek in them but is grown up enough that they don’t feel they have to show it off everywhere they go. Someone who enjoys kink as well as romance. Someone who is more of a homebody, but willing to venture out if there is something worth seeing or hearing. If she shares my passion for all things Asian, so much the better.

I'd like to mention one more thing: I am a non-religious person. It seems like most of the mail I get on here is from Christian women, and while I don't mind being friends with religious people, it has been my experience that dating them doesn't work out because it always becomes an issue at some point.

If you're still reading after all that and am interested in contacting me, please do so. I don't generally send the first message because I know that every decent woman on this service is being swamped with all kinds of messages from all kinds of different guys as it is.

It would depend on who the date was with. Could be the usual dinner and a movie to a hockey game, a concert, coversation over drinks or coffee, etc.