Ideal Partner:
Female between the ages of 38 and 60
Someone into fitness to stop things falling apart. Not scared to tackle new things but enjoys life's simple pleasures. Has a view on most things and can respect those of others.
A bit romantic perhaps. Someone who likes themselves, but doesn't need to put themselves first.
Someone who finds everything I say Humorous, or if not humorous, fascinating or if neither humorous nor fascinating pretends that it is just to please me.

My Appearance:
I'm about 5'11, 12 stone, hard bodied, but not hard boiled. Fit, toned exterior but soft sensitive considerate and caring within.
My hair is not short but not long either and not as dark as once it was, in fact pretty grey in suspicious contrast to many men of my age on TV. I wear glasses except when reading. I don't have to wear suits for work so I dress smartly but casually.

What I'm here for:
I'm a romantic at heart seeking a bit of romance; I enjoy sending and receiving emails or even better making conversation, observations on life's absurdities. I can be a bit of a tease. But I can take it as well as dish it out. I enjoy laughing. Isn't that what we're here for?
I like meeting new people. But not in groups, one to one will do me. I find it exciting going to some new place that you would never have thought of going, to meet with someone you would never have met under other circumstances. With the possibility that this could lead - who knows where? And there is the opportunity of trying new food, a different pub, taking in a film or a play, a gig or going around an exhibition or gallery where all the tourists have been but us locals have never found the time to go.

I like cycling and walking, in town and in the countryside. Going to the cinema, theatre, art galleries, music, museums (especially the British museum). But preferably not alone. I'm always wondering what's around the next corner and if i have the time, will nip down a road or footpath I've not been down before or try a new route home; I'm curious about landscapes streets and buildings I've not seen before. I read novels mainly on trains, but also in bed.
I find I can get interested in most things if I put my mind to it.
At work I manage people which is challenging but enjoyable. I get on with and like most people. But need a bit of kiss and cuddle.

We nervously seek each other out both hoping, hope from hope, that this perhaps could be the one...............................???
We drink in each other with our eyes; face /hair /figure / style and best of all our smiles; not as expected, not unexpected, but somehow right. Like two lost jigsaw puzzle pieces quite unalike until the very moment when they fit together.
Our voices intermingle; every word every gesture, our interests, our observations are just as we expected and so wanted them to be. So natural, so comfortable we feel as though we’ve known each other all our lives. And later flushed and happy we almost accidentally touch as we part and feel a strange electric thrill between the two of us.
This is why we are in this life, on this site and there is a chance that we two could be just like this. Tell me do you believe?