Well, I'll start with the biggest thing in my life....my kiddos. They're the greatest kids in the world! :) I am a rural carrier for the post office and absolutely love my job! I wanna say first that I don't play games. Don't know how...never have and never will. I'm real...what u see is what u get. I don't date much....I find it very difficult to meet people in my area....and when I do find someone I think I might like to date, I either end up getting stood up, or he's a total douche bag and I end up getting hurt again. Someone please help restore my faith in men!! I've met some real 'winners' and am wondering if there's anyone great left out there. I'm looking for someone who's honest and can make me laugh. I want to feel safe with someone. I want to know in my heart that he's not going to crap on me like all the others. I'd settle for just someone to hang out with and be friends too. A person can always use more friends. Pretty much just someone to spend some down time with. I am usually kiddo-free on weekends and find myself at home alone.......sad, I know LOL Ok, so what r u waiting for? send me a message already!!!!

I've dated all types of men, but seem to always be attracted to skinny white boys. I don't know why...just my thing I guess. I also have been known to have a thing for tattoos. I never have any luck on here when I send the first message, so I've decided not to initiate any conversation....even though I would like to at times! I'm looking forward to hearing from you!


OH YEA....By the way, I'm Heather

8/2/09....yea, so I've been gone for a little bit but am back. I was dating someone and that obviously didn't turn out in my favor. I seriously don't know what I'm doing wrong, so if u have the balls to tell me, then shoot. Anyway, I'm back and looking forward to finding someone great this time.

ummm....idk really...just something out of the norm....something original.... or even just a drink to chat can be nice too. I would love to go out w someone who remembers how to impress a lady. We all love a rose or two, doors being opened and being in the presence of a gentleman. I promise it will be repaid ten fold if we really hit it off.