i know that i am looking for that one special someone to share memories , good times as well as a few bumps in the road of life. i need someone committed to honest open communication and sincerety. i know after all the years some of the most basics are key to longevity and happiness ,i guess i know how frustrating it is for the women who are looking for thier soulmates also its been a ( almost lost for words) say interesting and sometimes frustrating! .i think we all look for that physical attraction first and it sometimes is disappointing after knowing what we thought were sincere intentions misleading ! i guess you just have to keep trying ! Right! what a great feeling to be with that special someone sharing life and its adventures ! i am looking for soulmate if that is still possible? looking for a considerate, good communicator, honest and sincere with all the baggage left behind. ready to explore new possibilitites. not looking for the proffesional dater if you know what i mean.i have a harley, been riding for years , but no fanatic. summer drives in my bugatti , love the outdoors , flowers in spring, cookouts on the patio, music, did i mention i am a fanatic on music. i have my whole home wired for sound. andrea bocelli,sarah brightman to zero 7, my mourning jacket. lucky i live in a woods with great neighbors. watching a movie(yes i put a tv outside what a gas) , a glass of wine and good company.i really enjoy the summer weather and nights , lots of interest ! but with the right person,you know how hard that may be? sharing an expierince with someone special makes it just way more rewarding! not really sure how unigue i am as i think we all are all kind of looking for the same things really! i think its a special blessing to spend time with a person that cares about you.and visa versa. looking for the special someone! i do smoke but respect others that dont! ps trying to quit the smokin thing, well ! later gator !Greg

first date, well i think it can be really stressful for both parties with the anticpation and expectations.so i think its better to keep it simple as 2 friends meeting for a coffee or drink after work to keep it simple and talk about the days events or whatever, and after we both decided it might be mutually interesting to get to know one another better , it might be a romatic candlelight dinner to procced?since average is used quite often i would say i do perfer thin, slim, slender, skinny---- lol or average if you kindly understand, i am no brad pitt but told many times i do look better in person guess not photogenic. please look at least like your pic also , it is just so hard to meet and then uncomfortable to say you might not be the right person. i dont want to be hurtful in anyway ! Thank you and thanks to all that were kind and considerate to check me out! hope we all find that person we are looking for! Greg