I decided it was time to update my main photo since all the others are a little older. No one's around at the moment to shoot it so for now we get that reflection in the bathroom mirror crap...

Well honestly I'm not all that big on the idea of "meeting" women online. I don't think you ever find out much of significance until you meet face to face, at least not the important things. But... I'm about as good at bullshitting as someone learning English as a second language, so here we are.

I like animals. I have a dog and a cat.

I own a home in South City.

I like my sense of humor, I think having a good one is rather important. I laugh at things a lot of people don't - including myself. I think a lot of people take too many things too seriously, especially themselves. People who like me say I'm funny. People who don't like me probably don't say that.

When I'm not at work, sleeping, socializing, or wasting my time, I sometimes paint, write, or take photos.

Everyone likes to have fun. No one has time for games. No one likes people who lie and cheat. Nearly everyone loves to travel. I'm no different.

As for what I'm looking for, I can't say that I have a lot of specific criteria. It pretty much comes down to whether or not we click. No lasting relationships of significance are based on similar interests or really anything that makes all much sense, in my opinion. I think we put too much thought into these things. We try to map out what we want in a relationship as if it were a business plan. If it works it works, if it doesn't it doesn't. I don't think there's a formula for it. It has to come naturally, if you try too hard I think you're trying to force something that doesn't work. That doesn't mean you don't have to be attentive, or that you don't put any effort into it... There has to be balance. I think balance is important, I am a Libra after all. I've wanted for a long time to disbelieve that makes a difference but we are what we are, whether we want to be or not. I see no use in trying to pretend you are something you aren't, or to pretend you aren't something you are. We spend a lot of time trying to construct an image of ourselves that frequently differs significantly from what we really are. **** that.

Usually something like getting a drink or a coffee. I'm the type of person that cares more about who I'm with than where I'm at. I hate Applebee's, as an example. But if I'm with someone I really like, I can still enjoy myself at Applebee's. I may well ask "why the hell are we at Applebee's?" and suggest we go somewhere else, but I will still care much more about the person than the place.