Very open minded and liberal male that seems to have problems finding my female equivalent! You've got to try everything in life at least twice, just in case the first time was a bad first impression. :-)

Life is way too short to play by the socially acceptable rules of engagement, everyone needs to explore their innermost dreams and fantasies then try to seek out someone to share them with and help them become a reality.

A good night out would be some drinks on a patio with friends while a live band plays in the background, or dancing somewhere fun!

If it’s the winter, then drinks in a hot tub!!!

A good night in would be watching an action/comedy/horror flick, mucking around on the computer or playing some video games. Or some other form of recreational activities....wink wink...lol

What I am looking for?

Honesty, it’s not hard, though most have difficulty with that. In fact I would prefer honesty over loyalty. (In my world I see a difference)

Why do we need to have secrets why can’t couples feel comfortable enough to say what’s on their mind.

As for music, I'll listen to anything but country.

Other interests include: camping, hiking, canoeing, exploring new places, going for drives, just generally anything outdoors.

First date could be anything where both of us feel comfortable enough to be ourselves. Somewhere quiet were we can talk, and spend sometime getting to know each other, maybe a few drinks just to help us relax. :-)