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I WANT YOU TO WANT ME, I NEED YOU TO NEED ME... Always the distance. I want to laugh again.
Judge me not before you really know me. My heart is good. I am not your normal everyday woman and may not fit into a average mold of everyday life n living. NOT and angel but life gives us moments to make a quick decision and one must weigh the pros and cons. Tending to the needs of a child or children is a hard road and requires unselfishness and hard work, sometimes a Mother may have to do things that are not social norm or accepted BUT no man or woman can judge only God above and that is MY cross to bare when the time arrives. Try to understand and allow me to explain BEFORE you condemn me to HELL.
Hello, my name is Stacy. I am a single parent of a 15 year old son. I served US Army for three years and trained Airborne (5 Jump Chump). I have AA, AS and a BA in Criminal Justice, was a Probation Counselor till a car accident in 2002 causing chronic pain (Fibromyalgia); resigned and am a Customer Service Manager at Walmart.
A LOST WEAK SOUL LOSING MYSELF IN A CRAZY FAST NO MERCY WORLD WHERE PEOPLE HURT, LIE AND CHEAT; NO ONE LOOKING OUT FOR ANYONE BUT THEMSELVES, FIGHTING TO BREATH AND GAIN SOME SORT OF PROPER EXISTENCE.
YES I could stand to lose 10 - 15 lbs. Let's work out TOGETHER! Getting older SUX!
I prefer to be labeled CURVY versus AVERAGE.
Getting older but have a YOUNG heart.
I am aware and tending to my HOME and WORK responsibilities despite being POOR. I try to be HAPPY as possible though sometimes I am SAD.
I am not in a good financial situation right now; well probably never really have I usually just make it by with my bills and barely enough to eat but my HEART is very wealthy and plenty so PLEASE DON"T JUDGE ME for being POOR.
I am sweet but stubborn, silly, sensitive, passionate, honest, wear my heart on my sleeve, hard working, shy at times, imperfect.
I have moments of weakness and lows due to my pain, most times I can get thru it with a semi smile while others times it kicks my azz! I try not to let it run my life and hoping to find a man who can understand and allow me these moments of weakness without judgement.
**Prefer a LONG TERM relationship with ONE good, loyal, honest, understanding, athletic, passionate, respectful, driven, compassionate, funny MAN!
*MUST be an animal lover!
I have two Dogs and a Turtle.
I WANT equal sincere care and concern.
I WANT passion and intensity.
I WANT to give my heart and soul to ONE man and have his in return.
I WANT to experience the life of a couple/family.
I WANT to LOVE deep, hard and fully.
I WANT the giddy butterflies.
I WANT to smell him on my pillow.
I WANT to be his strength in time of weak and him in mine.
I WANT to have his back; defend and support him.
I WANT to know his dreams, hopes and fears.
I WANT to be what makes him happy and smile.
TURN ONS:
Big Biceps, Good Smile, Passion, Desiring Eyes, Honesty, Smells Good, Educated, Good Kisser, Humor, Attentive, Sweet Texts of Thought, Hard Worker, Athletic, Dominant, Respectful, Thoughtful, Driven, Assertiveness, Funny
TURN OFFS:
Smokers, Drug Users, Alcoholics, Dead Beat Dads, Players, Gamers, Disrespect, Bad Hygiene, Rude, Arrogant, Gangsta, Uneducated, Snoring, Bad Kisser, Stalker, References to me as Dude or Man, Aggression, Conceit, Really Bad Spellers , Liars, Cheaters
I luv all water/sun activities; Tubing down the Rainbow River, Snorkeling, Swimming, Sunbathing, Boating, Fishing, Sunsets
Please have RECENT picture to share.
**I RESIDE ON THE WEST COAST GULF SIDE OF SUNNY FLORIDA IN THE BOONIES SOMEWHERE UNDER OCALA AND ABOUT HOUR AND HALF FROM ORLANDO, POSSIBLY 2 HOURS FROM TAMPA, WELL OVER 2 HOURS FROM CLEARWATER AND WAY OVER 4 OR MORE FROM BEAUTIFUL LAUDERDALE, MIAMI AREAS. PLEASE BE AWARE OF THIS FACT BEFORE YOU RESPOND IN INTEREST. IT IS WHAT IT IS.
THANK YOU FOR READING."When you look inside a girl's heart, you see that struggle it takes to get through all the crap in her life, you see all the lies, the bullshit, and the times she wished she was dead. But most of all, you see how hard it was to let go of an azzhole that acted like he actually cared."
"Find a heart that will love you at your worst, and arms that will hold you at your weakest."
"Stand 4 What U Believe in...Even If It Means UR Standing ALONE"
"If you can't handle me at my worst; you don't deserve me at my best".
STATEMENTS TO LIVE BY; and trying to APPLY:
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
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