OK ladies, let me put it on the line. I am not the dude that is going to kiss your butt or grovel like a dog. If you want a pet go to the store, but if you would like to meet a nice, self respecting man that has his own life, then we can talk. I like heavy metal music(Old & New) and enjoy drinking a few beers on the weekend.(when I don't have my 3 year old daughter). If your looking for a man with lots of money your in the wrong place. I'm a self-employed painter and MI is sucking big time for us right now. If this message comes off a little harsh, I'm sorry, but I don't want to waste your time or mine.
P.S. To you snooty, to good to talk people out there why don't you take a ariel intercourse on a motivated pastry. Your no better then me and you are just missing out on some of the best thing life has to offer.

I think that a first date should not be a high pressure event, but a good setting to talk and get to know each other. Good food, lots of laughs, and pleasent scenery.