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Planning on attending the POF meet and greet on rockford on 11/21. You can too if you look at the link..... : http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts13363976.aspx

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11/2/2009 - No longer looking to meet someone but may still attend a POF Meet/Greet/Dance from time to time.
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Several of my hobbies are hobbies of necessity. Cooking ( kids have to eat ), Gardening ( Flower beds need weeding, lawn needs mowing), Movies ( When it's time to relax just veg on the couch and watch a good movie ), Intelligent conversations ( only so much you can get from the kids )

Hair is mixed color as it didn't list salt and pepper as a choice.

I have children as "Does not want children". It's ok if you have kids, I do. I just don't want more. And I will not introduce you to my children at first until I get to know you. If you push, I'll probably back off. I like an outgoing person but not someone who immediately tries to become part of my life. I want to get to know you and if your pushy, guess that's a red flag for me. I do have time when the kids go to their mom's so there is time to get to know someone.

I have my looking for as friends. This doesn't mean I don't hope for something that may eventually turn into something long term. I just know it can not be forced. I know what I'm looking for. Hoping to meet someone who is educated, preferably some one who has kids or has had kids, so they know what it's like. And I'll let you know more should we talk.

I do smoke but... I do have a goal to give it up this year... Just haven't set the date yet... It's a habit I would like to stop just need to do it.

I did not write the following, it was sent to me by someone to describe my sign so I just decided to put it on my profile...
PISCES:. The Piece of ass

Caring and kind. Smart. Center of attention. Too Sexy, DAMN IT. Very high ### appeal. Has the last word. The best to find, hardest to keep. Fun to be around. Freak in the sheets. Extremely weird but in a good way. Super good in bed. Good Sense of Humor!!! Thoughtful. A partner for life. Always gets what he or she wants. Loves to joke. Very popular. Silly, fun and sweet.

First date should be something short and casual. After an initial meeting I believe you know if you want a friendship or not. And if you can't desire a friendship, how can you possibly consider dating.