I am a non-smoker looking to date only the same....

Attractive to me would be a very self confident individual, well traveled and most probably, he will be from the south or from the midwest.... He will be emotionally and financially secure, non-controlling, one who is not intimidated with the opinions of others, nor one who chooses to live in the past. I tend to believe that NOW is the best time of our lives. You are not what you did, rather what you are doing. Human chameleons are not attractive to me, be yourself, do not say what you "think" I want to hear. A Promise Keeper, a man of his word with the evidence being shown in his actions. LOVE is a verb,not an emotion. His charactor should be that of an unselfish person. Please!!! no sex or porn addictions....I refuse to be jealous of a computer! Finally, if your first name is "Peter" and your last name is "Pan" ...and you don't want to or have not grow up, quickly pass me by. I am no longer in my 20's and I do not have the desire to rear another child.... My children are grown, productive and are fun to be around, like their Mother!

How to Recognize A Good Woman........
A good woman is proud. She respects herself and others.

She is aware of who she is.

She neither seeks definition from the person she is with, nor does she expect them to read her mind.

She is quite capable of articulating her needs.

A good woman is hopeful. She is strong enough to make all her dreams come true.

She knows love, therefore she gives love. She recognizes that her love has great value and must be reciprocated.

If her love is taken for granted, it soon disappears.

A good woman has a dash of inspiration and a dabble of endurance.

She knows that she will at times have to inspire others to reach the potential God gave them.

A good woman knows her past, understands her present and forces toward the future.

A good woman knows God. She knows that with God the world is her playground, but without God she will just be played with.

A good woman does not live in fear of the future because of her past.

Instead, she understands that her life experiences are merely lessons meant to bring her closer to self-knowledge and unconditional self-love…

If you do not have a pic posted...I will figure that you are either married or in hiding...and please do not state that you are a CEO...everyone is using that excuse for not posting a picture:) Fair is fair....no pic, no responce.
I am straight forward...I am either Hot or cold...no middle of the road here...and still sweet