I am in the process of getting a divorce and am moving on. There is NO chance in hell I would ever get back with him, I have filed for divorce at the courthouse, so there would be nothing to worry about in that. My children, both girls (ages 1 and 6) are my life.

If you are looking for a skinny girl, move along, I am not one of them.

My soon to be ex husband told me that I lost myself in the years we were together, I am hoping to find myself again with some help from others. In the time we were together we really never did anything fun, so I have lost the fun part of my life and am at a loss of what I like to do. It has been so long since I have really done anything that would be considered fun.

I get told I am a negative person, I don't believe that I am, I am a realist. I never get my hopes up because 99% of the time I get let down. Many people don't understand the difference between being negative and being real. Do you?

I am open, honest and real and am looking for someone that is the same way. I have a great sense of humor (which does go in the gutter from time to time :))
and was told recently I have an awesome personality. I get told that my eyes are really deep and sparkly. I have been told I am really easy to talk to. I am very touchy feely and I enjoy the same.

I am ultimately looking for the one who sweeps me off my feet and that I know I can bring home to my 2 girls and introduce him to them as "the one".


***Foot note-I do not want to move out of Salem, I love the area and the school my daughter goes to, I would like my youngest to go there as well-so my be able to relocate here and a total plus if you already live here!***

~*~If you are only going to talk dirty to me if I give you my yahoo or phone number, then please DO NOT ask for it - I am looking for an emotional and physical relationship, not for someone to start off talking about what they are going to do to me as well as what they want me to do to them sexually or ask me if I have any naked pictures - doing these will make me not want to talk to you or want to meet you~*~

~*~DO NOT CALL ME SEXY WHEN YOU HAVE NOT MET ME~*~

STAND UP COUNT = 3 (amount of times I have been stood up by people on POF)

My Pet Peeves:

Men who say they will call and never do and keep saying "I'll call you later"
Non US citizens who never worked a day in their whole life in the US getting benefits when US citizens can't even get them
Foreign speaking people talking really loud to each other people of foreign countries coming to the US and then complaining about what is here
People at a 4-way stop sign that don't obey the rules of being at a 4-way stop sign
Pedestrians who walk on DON'T WALK lights when there is a whole lot of traffic
Old people who drive cars that are too big for them
People who don't flush the toilets in a public restroom
People who after using the toilet walk right by the sink and out the door without washing their hands right in front of you
Sales clerks who won't get off their cell phones to help you Wait staff at a restaurant who don't even pay attention to you
People who say "like" every other word
People who say "you know" at the end of each sentence
People who don't use deodorant
People who drive with their high beams on
People who don't use a directional when turning
People who give fake smiles
People who say "how are you?" and not wait for a reply People who sigh really loud or complain when in a long line (like it is going to help the line move any faster)
People who walk 4 across on a sidewalk so you have to go into the street with a child to pass them
People who walk in the middle of the street not caring a car is trying to get by
When employees or retail and food establishments go on break and stand outside the place of business smoking
Teenagers who stand in front of a door and not move to let you go in
People who use double negatives ("Don't know nothing")
Men who don't take their pubic/chest hair out of the soap when done with it and it dries on there
People who take politics way too seriously
People who see you are waiting for their parking space, get in their cars, start it, start to back up, go back into the space, turn the car off and get out and walk back into the store
People who park in Handicap only spaces with no Handicap plate or sticker
Songs and commercials on in the car with sirens
800 numbers who don't leave a message when you don't answer the phone
800 numbers who say "Please hold for the next available operator" when they called ME
Old ladies who pay with exact change, without using any paper money
People who refer to themselves in the 3rd person
People who make a right turn from the FAR left lane and vice versa
People who stop to let pedestrians cross when we have the green light and they have a DO NOT WALK sign
Men who leave the toilet seat up in the middle of the night so when I have to go pee, I fall in the toilet
People who "fear" condiments
People who "fear" deli meats
People who say they don't like a certain food even though they have never had it before
People who don't rinse their dishes so when you go to wash them it is all hard and takes twice as long to wash them
People who use the expression, "NOT FOR NOTHING"
Television shows and movies where the sound doesn't line up with the mouth movements

My first date would probably be something quiet, a more of "get to know you" time. Maybe dinner or a walk, time to talk and share who we are and what we want. Why go to a movie on a first date is beyond me, sit in silence watching a giant screen, you can't talk so what's the point?