To be vague I'm looking for a compatible girl. Someone who's not boring, who uses their imagination once in a while. There's nothing wrong with being a little shy as long as you're willing to relax your inhibition once in a while and let go. A sense of humor is really important to me too. Yea, if you're uptight, I'm not the person you should be around ;-) I'm a nice guy... I promise... most of the time...

Essentially though, It's hard to find someone with an adequate balance of beauty and personality, and, so, we are doomed to search. You never know who you wind up clicking with, chemistry is found in wierd places sometimes...

Anyway, name is John. I'm Italian. I'm from Queens. When I'm not working or in the gym I like to play sports, bar hop, or just hang out. I'm easy to please. I just graduated college. I work in Mechanical Engineering, HVAC for my family owned business but I studied Film in college. I'm independent, I'm straight-up and honest, laid-back, witty, intelligent (Yea, I said it!) and sometimes (ONLY SOMETIMES I SAID) obnoxious, but, trust me, I'm more fun that way. ...I know a little bit about a lotta things (useless knowledge isn't useless at all) But mostly I'm really into cars and bikes, I'm a motorhead/car freak. I get lost in all that stuff, it's a great feeling, it's unparalleled by anything. So many moments of clarity come after moments of rushing adrenaline. I'm really into music too, I play a few instruments- bass, guitar, cello, upright bass; etc. I'm also into food and wine. I love going to different restaurants especially in manhattan and brooklyn. In fact, I love experiencing my city, I'm enamored with New York even though I've been here my whole life. Cooking is another way I like to be creative. I admit to being experimental and that can leave you hungry, and that's why I have my pizza guy's cell phone number. (That's an exaggeration, I'm d*mn good!... but, seriously, I have his cell phone number) Well, I know this is a lot to take in. After all there aren't many guys as handsome and incredible and as fantastic as I am.... ok so I exaggerate (again), what's the big deal? Being humble is no fun anyway...And ask about me before you make assumptions. I will surprise the hell outa you.

Well first off, I don't like the "I'm looking for" colummn on this site. I'm looking for a Rolex in a cereal box... How bout we just start and see where it goes from there.

Anyway, the best first dates are in a relaxed atmosphere where you can just have some good conversation. It's crazy how people can really click chatting online and talking on the phone and then once you meet in person it's a complete bore-fest... it happens. But it's not about the location, it's about interaction... and I like to keep it close to her house just in case she turns out to be... let's just say a little Britney Spears'-esque... ya know from the bald era... this way I can make a daring, ninja-like escape and not feel guilty about leaving psycho-date and gettin the hell outa there Hey This is is internet dating, ya never know ;-] Measures must be taken just in case I need to make evasive maneuvers, lol.

Well, in all seriousness, the ultimate goal is to have something meaningful with someone whom I can connect with on multiple levels. These don't come by often nor overnight.

So if I've offended you,you're uptight and you're no fun... also no one likes you...
If I haven't offended you... be patient...
And if you are smiling uncontrollably, feel free to messsage me.

Oh... And what the hell is activity partner? What exactly does that mean and who really needs a dating site for this? "Yes, Hi. I'm looking for a girl who can help me build a scale replica of Yankee stadium out of popsicle sticks, it's my currently planned activity", that just sounds extremely appealing. "And not only can I not do this by myself, I need someone of the opposite sex to assist me with my wood... and... glue"... Yea, OK. Well that one backfired on me. Suddenly there's the value of the elusive activity partner... and you all got to watch me think haha