I'm a single father with share custody of two awesome boys ages 5 and 7,(they do have their moments though like today when they tried to burn down my house… but I remember playing with matches in those days too) going on three years separated from their mother. I'm past playing the blame game it didn't work out, I tried my best and was faithful, not going back... I can be serious when it counts but love to have my fun you must be able to think outside the box. There is no stress outside the box.... if there is someone compatible out there who is tired of searching and wants to settle down (not settle for) I'd love to make it happen. I'm not some out of touch grew up rich, everything I possess I have earned with my two hands. I’m not bitter though lol I enjoyed every bit of it. Life is short so it should not be wasted searching for greener pastures, but be enjoyed with someone special.

I’d like to go somewhere comfortable for the two of us, as much as a hike or stroll on the beach would be more fun, a cup of tea in a fine establishment might be more suitable for the first time.