Hey Fish! I'm active, independent, i work alot and im the mommy to the most beautiful little girl in the world. So that doesnt leave much time to find a wonderful man...and here i am online, fishing. I'm pretty laid back but im old enough to know what i want and when not to waste my time. I'm honest, loyal, funny, direct, affectionate, thoughtful, sarcastic and sometimes super silly. DISCLAIMER...yes, i have tattoos but they do not make me the person that i am. in fact they really are not even much a part of my lifestyle. they do not put me in any sort of social "category" or give me any sort or "label". they do not hinder my professionalism in any way and in fact they are most always covered. please do not form your opinion of me based on my skin.

In a man, I would definitely want someone who shared some of my interests and personality traits. As well as being quick witted, gainfully employed, and somewhat aware of your health. I am NOT looking for a booty call, someone to go party with, or a heavy drinker. Im also not looking for a Hunter type since i am a vegetarian. If you are not available for a relationship, please do not contact me. If you are in any sort of a relationship, even if you plan on keeping it a secret, I am not interested. Sad that I would have to state that but it is what it is.

I like rap, r&b, punk rock, new wave and indie rock. I bet i can beat you at more than a couple of games of pool. If I could buy a new pair of shoes every week, i would. Im a good cook, and yes i will cook non veggie if i really like someone. I am very socially and politically aware. I wont have much in common with a conservative republican. I do not find sitcoms funny most of the time because the "humor" is dumbed down for general consumption. Theres alot more but we can talk about it.

that would really depend on the person i was going out with. im open to suggestions!