I'm a cynical idealist, humanist, music lover, and avid reader. I will drive you crazy, but in the most interesting ways possible. A collection of comedic contradictions, I'm just another creature trying to be happy and to grow infinitely.

Those who know me best know that my passionate nature is easily provoked. I am romantic and tough. I like to challenge, cuss, sing (horribly out of tune), debate, and smile. I am assertive, blunt, sensitive, curious, unpredictable, and hyper. You don't want to get mixed up with me unless you love to have every one of your certainties challenged.

I love self-exploration and the exploration of others. I want to know who you are and how you came to be at the place you find yourself now. I try to find things to appreciate about everyone I meet. I truly love very few people, but like quite a number more. I like people who can communicate in the raw, stimulate me inside out, who are honest with me and with themselves, people who are bold enough to call me out on my sh!t, and willing to admit when they're wrong. I respect and admire people that are confident in who they are and what they stand for, who can give of themselves without giving themselves away.


I am addicted to laughter in all forms from tiny giggles to those deep rumbling belly laughs that erupt from the depths of your soul. I love making people laugh and am not above acting a complete fool to get the job done. I can be moody and difficult, requiring patience and space. I’m quiet and observant, but talkative when interested in the subject. I am rarely ever on time. I hate change, but know that we all need a lot of it.

I have an intense love of nature. I like playing in the rain and the smell of freshly cut grass. I love to cuddle and find that doing so while watching a storm roll in is a particularly pleasurable slice of paradise.

I like uppers/stimulants -- whether emotional, physical, or mental. I like to teach myself about random stuff. I try to treat every creature with respect. I like to inspect bugs and other creatures. I have a short-attention span. I'm in love with list-making.

I appreciate honesty, sardonic wit or just a great sense of humor, informed conversation about most anything, crisp autumn days, trying new things, pushing oneself beyond their comfort zone, and cold water.

I am very passionate about music in all forms and live for music that makes me feel something bigger and better than I am or cradles me in its embrace, comforting me in my pain. I live for music that moves me heart, body, and soul allowing me to feel and dance and rock out with abandon and be the wild child I was born to be deep down in my soul. I love discovering music that’s new to me for the first time and having it BLOW MY MIND and falling in love all over again with the music; again and again.

I currently reside in South Bend, Indiana by way of Douglasville, Georgia and various parts of Michigan. I would like to connect with people who enjoy gatherings of great friends for great conversation over a few beers, traveling by plane, train, or automobile, just hitting the road and driving somewhere new or exploring someplace old. Those who enjoy discovering stone buildings, churches, and other interesting places like the cool calm under a big beautiful old tree, and a girl who will try just about anything with the right amount of hot sauce on it.