Hey Santa Baby, all I want for Christmas is a Sweetheart, a Sweet Sweetheart. Cause I like SWEET! Got it Santa Baby. Please prove to me you are real! I keep searching for that special one. That one with whom we both connect on a deep friendship and sensual level. One with whom we can create a working life and wealth together. For most, I am not the right fit, but, out there, is the one with whom I will click and resonate. A special relationship creates a wonderful environment in which to grow as people.
If you're looking for a guy seeking and acting to do the right thing, willing to get in the arena and take a few knocks for the right thing, who does not drink, smoke or do drugs while not being judgmental towards others who do. A guy who takes life seriously but not himself. Maybe I am your idea of a man.
These days my driving inspiration is a quote from President Theodore Roosevelt:"It is not the critic who counts: not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles or where the doer of deeds could have done better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs and comes up short again and again, because there is no effort without error or shortcoming, but who knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotions, who spends himself for a worthy cause; who, at the best, knows, in the end, the triumph of high achievement, and who, at the worst, if he fails, at least he fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who knew neither victory nor defeat." Theodore Roosevelt
Only a heavy guy? I have fun and enjoy life. This guy (Dave) enjoys the simple pleasure of the convertible top down, friendly games of tennis, bicycling along the coast or in the mountains, hiking in the mountains, watching sunsets at the beach and, as a morning guy, sunrises in the mountains. I feel at home in a rustic environment. Always game for a nonsensical conversation that may take us somewhere or nowhere...as long as it stretches the brain and creates a chance to talk, get to know each others thinking and have a good laugh.
I am thinking, that maybe, just maybe more of us would find a good connection once we realize that that we are imperfect and and our options are imperfect. In that imperfection there is humanness seeking love warmth and affection. Thank God there is no one who is perfection. Life would be so unlivable.
My idea of a woman? 1.) Most Important: Charming , Gracious, Smart, Flexible with sparkly personality. 2.) Would Be Nice if she was thin -medium with long hair. 3.) If you have a need to control others please pass on. 4.) Most important...see #1! Really need a physically active woman who enjoys the out door activities like I do. I don't find fowl language to be sexy or attractive in a woman and I find very few occasions to use it my self. After this has all been said and done, until you meet someone and spend time with them, you really don't know if there is a connection. I must say that beauty is a wonderful thing. If it's only skin deep, I don't find value in lt. A beautiful woman with a beautiful heart, that's a very good thing! I have no belief in soul mates, There are so many possibilities out there, so I am looking for a good fit and commit to that special situation which seems to be the best fit for both of us. If you understand the importance of being responsible for your own happiness and don't expect it to come from others, I would really like to talk to you!
Important note: We are busy grown ups with our own understanding and natural sense of who we are attracted to. Being attracted to someone is so very subjective and personal. Although we may not be attracted to some one who may be attracted to us. It doesn't reflect any thing bad about that person. I understand if you are not interested and won't take it personally. and visa versa please.

It's probably best for all concerned to meet in a public place like Star bucks ect... for the safety of both, but I'd rather find some activity to do which makes communication natural while doing it rather then having the feeling of a job interview. Could be creative like have a spot of tea while balancing on a tree limb looking out over the valley, or a water balloon fight while discussing ways to save the Republic, making an exotic spaghetti while playing the ungame, walk the River Front bridge while my doggie Tasia drags us across looking for squirrels... the possibilities are limitless! Tis important to note that as adults, we should understand that attractiveness and interest is so subjective and we just shouldn't waste time on being hurt or insulted if the one whom we are interested in does not feel the same. It's the risk of putting one's self out there. It's worth the risk though, cause in most cases we shall not find the right fit without opening the door to meet til that one connection comes together. LIFE IS THE GREAT ADVENTURE!!