I am a 42 years old, 6`5", no kids, college and military educated man. I also travel a lot around the country.IF YOU WANT A THUG, GANGSTA, OR HOOD, I AM NOT YOUR KIND OF MAN!!!! (No one in Africa Please) I'm looking for a God-fearing woman, who wants to be a wife, who has playfulness, honesty, and intelligence. I like a strong intelligent woman. But I don't like a confrontational woman. I desire a tall woman, and a woman who is a non-smoker. My ideal match is over 5'7 tall, (5'10 ? up a plus) Christian, intelligent, loving, loyal, affectionate, educated (either in a classroom, or by life itself), attractive, TOP-HEAVY, and must want multiple children by me. If a woman has children, I would prefer that they be under 5 years old, and no more than two please. I've had experiences where I was involved with a woman with children, and when our relationship didn't workout, the emotional withdraw from the children was awful. So I would like a potential mate to be childless, like myself, but I won't hold hard and fast to that request or the request that the child(ren) be under 5 years old either. The one thing about me that has made some women very angry is that I know exactly what I want in a mate, and I'm willing to hold out until I find her. I don't need or want 2 or 2,222 women. I just want the right, heterosexual (not bi) woman only. I'm not into 3-somes, swapping or sharing. I'd just like to add... I think that a couple needs to have that natural chemistry (natural attraction) between each other. If not, the relationship is left vulnerable. My life is surreal by many people's standards. I need a woman who is not overwhelmed by situations that most minorities never experience. I own a technology company that puts me into some very interesting situations and to know some very interesting people. I need a woman who can handle backyard barbecues one day, and corporate board meetings the next day. I need a woman who isn't going to run the first time there's an unexpected crisis, nor a woman this is only there for the potential of big money either. I need a woman who could take over for me if I'm out of town or sick. Yet still be able to support me in what I'm doing for the family and the company. But most of all, I need a woman who is truly into the man that I am, an Alpha Male. My tendencies are to face problems directly, and handle them immediately. I am very direct, and will speak my mind. But I will also listen, VERY CLOSELY to what a woman has to say. And I do try to honor all reasonable requests. I nurture my woman. But I'm also the easiest person in the world to get rid of if I feel mistreated. I have been asked why I am still single, and how did I manage to not have any children? The answer is very simple. First, I am a very precise person. I know exactly what I want, what I bring and what I am looking for, and I WILL NOT WAIVER! For me, it's everything or nothing. That may sound harsh, but it is what it is. Also, I have observed that I only feel that special chemistry with 1 out of 100 women that I meet. And out of 100 women that I feel the chemistry for, only one of those feels it with me. So I've observed that only 1 out of 10,000 women I may see or come across, is a mutual match. But when I find her, I pray we are together for all eternity.

I would like to sit and talk. We need to find out very early on if there's chemistry and compatibility. We both need to know that we have very similar mindsets, religious beliefs and frames of reference. It doesn't matter to me if the woman wants a career or wants to stay home. What matters is that she is sure of her decision and is happy in whatever role she chooses. I need to know if she has a sense of humor, because I do love my cartoons and I will tickle her.. I promise you that! (smile) I also need to know that she will not make me pay for all the bad men, she let into her life previously. I didn't hurt her, I will not pay the price for the ones who did.