"mixed race" = African/Am and Native Am.(Cherokee)

I'm surrre most of us here on "POF" are looking for that "Ms./Mr Right" ... but I'm starting to realize that (for the most part) you only attract to yourself a reflection OF yourself ... so the word "Right" is subjective ... and it changes in meaning as YOU change.

So right about now, my whole perspective on women is a lil different.
I'm more open to vibe with other types of ladies ... rather than "my type". Meeting people shouldn't be a "left brain" kinda thing ... but more WHOLISTIC. (wholistic= mind body spirit)
Yeah, I've got a "basic sketch" of what I like, but now I'm alot more OPEN to meet just plain ol' "good people" ... know what I'm sayin???

Ladies ..
After perusing through TONS of profiles (and pix) on PlentyOfFish,
I've noticed a majorrrrr theme that seems to be soooo prevalent in manyy of your profiles ...
the phrase "NO GAMES".
Come onnnn, y'all ... let's get real here.
This wholllle internet DATING thing is a GAME!
PERIOD!

Let's translate GAME!

When your profile says - body type "average" ... but your pic says THREE Hundred pounder .... THAT'S GAME !

When your profile pix are from 2002 ... before the baby ...
before "Newton's law of gravity" kicked in" ... THAT'S GAME !

It seems to me that the mainnn ones crying "no games" ... are the MAIN ones "gaming".
Like I said "you only attract to yourself a reflection OF yourself."

Opposites attract????
That's cccrap!
... LIKEness attracts!

Honesty ...
... STILL the best policy.

shine,
V.B.

It depends on who your "first date" is with.
Let chemistry dictate.