Life is an everchanging experience. I love the calmness and tranquility that are so rare these days. It seems we are all in "cyclone mode" and need to just slow down and breathe. I don't need to be endlessly entertained....I think that's where we miss out on many opportunities to connect with another person. It seems everyone always has to have specific and definite "plans". If we can stop long enough to really listen and hear each other we may discover new and exciting things. My idea of having a more peaceful and happy life is to learn to accept all things. Those that HAVE been, those that ARE, those that WILL be, and maybe the most difficult of all...those things that will NEVER be. "WE PLAN.........GOD LAUGHS."

I do have alot of past but I do not live there. The present is an exciting place to be.

I have several children...some who have chosen me as their mom...others that I have chosen as my children...all grown or nearly grown. They do not live with me. If you have kids love them dearly and tell them so everyday. You never know if it may be the last time.

There are a couple of things that I do not do. One is I do not date outside my race and I do not date anyone who smokes. I don't mean to offend anyone...it's just my personal preference.

Thanks for taking time to read what I have to say. I think we all just want something real in our lives and I wish that for all of us.