I'm a 39 year-old attorney living in Manhattan looking for someone who is kind, caring, charitable, physically attractive, intelligent (the last thing that I want is a woman with the IQ of Paris Hilton on two bottles of NyQuil), open-minded, funny, athletic, etc.

I kind of adhere to the Seinfeld line that a "first date is like a job interview that lasts all night." I usually try to keep a first date kind of mellow. If there is chemistry, I'll plan the perfect second date.