Hey there...welcome to MY page!!!!! :o) For starters my name is robert. I believe intros should be mutual so if you plan on responding please introduce yourself as well.I do want to interject 5 things right off the bat here: 1.With my pictures I may look like a thug in some of my pictures or as I've been told I'm trying to portray myself younger than I am but in all honesty in both cases...that is not the case. 2.I am all about making a woman feel GENUINELY respected. 3.If the tongue ring makes you cringe,offends you or is a turn-off(whichever)...my apologies...I just wanted to do something different and bold. 4. I do have 2 boys but they live with their mother full time...so hopefully this won't be a dealbreaker. 5. And last but far from being the least...i know alot of girls are worried about taking care of a man,being a babysitter etc. etc. etc. or somebody who won't be accepting of their kid(s)...you genuinely don't have to be concerned of those with me.


And now...BEFORE YOU GO ON...I'M GONNA GIVE YOU A HEADS UP THAT PRECEDES ME BEING REAL AND BLUNT...IF YOU'RE NOT BIG ENOUGH TO HANDLE SOME "OOMPH" OR DON'T HAVE ENOUGH SUBSTANCE TO...JUST DO US BOTH A FAVOR AND MOVE ALONG!!! I WANT A LADY WHO'S WORTH MY TIME :o))))) I'm on here looking to meet new people and see where it goes. Things I'm looking for: somebody who's playful yet mature,silly and has a one in a billion cuteness about them that just really sweeps me off my feet...but they also have it balanced with being serious. I appreciate sarcasm as well~~~the age old rule: don't dish it out if you can't take it.Somebody who can make me laugh and enjoys my humor as well is a must.Somebody who's affectionate and yes even though i'm a guy i proudly admit i love to cuddle and can do it without it being a means to an end.HONESTY!!!~if you give me your word you're gonna do something...no matter how big or small it is...I expect you to follow through since I would do the same for you...it's not really that hard is it? TRUST!!! a relationship isn't a relationship without a foundation of trust. The ability to communicate is key as well.Intelligence is a good thing to have too. I don't expect you to be hannibal lecter but somebody within the same vicinity as myself would definitely be a bonus.(a totally random and probably an irrelative statement a friend of mine made was "your mind is like a vase when it comes to movies"...)nevertheless...challenge me!!! :o) I admire confidence~a girl who knows she's beautiful,sexy and desirable and doesn't need constant reassurance...that doesn't mean i won't dish out random compliments or praise anyways.I like a woman who isn't afraid to show affection in public i.e. a hug or a soft kiss or holding hands. Don't think for a second i won't do something beyond that if nobody can see us...lol. So going in hand in hand with that i appreciate somebody who's semi-romantic via either words or actions. Somebody who's about keeping their possessions organized...i'm not really into CHRONIC neatfreaks...that hold everything under a microscope but yeah i like things to be kept in order. Somebody with a good head on their shoulders. I want a girl who's REAL!!! Don't present yourself in a wonderful way and then not be able to back it up. It's ridiculous how many girls on here have something eloquently posted along the lines of "looking for the one" OR..."are you him?" definitely provoking interest to initiate contact only to show they're not how they present themselves and they just blow you off. TELL THE TRUTH!!! I'm not about head and/or heart games. So don't bring any to the table. I'm also not about BS or drama...I do my best to avoid it and I don't bring it.Another thing I don't want is somebody who wants to go bar-hopping and/or is living the night life 24/6. I appreciate somebody who's compassionate as well. In addition I am what I am...I don't have to make myself a ghost online or create a false identity etc. etc. etc. I know all the tactics guys use online to get what they want but I will tell you I don't use any of them...PERIOD!!! :o) As for physical appearance?...I prefer a girl who's(and not to sound mean or crude) thicker...bonus points if you're a brunette...hehe.
I love wrapping my arms around somebody knowing I'm holding onto something. I do have a limit though. Obesity is just a turn off...sorry...and the "smaller" girls?...well in my experiences they always bring more drama and phoniness into the picture. First features I notice on a woman are eyes(love seeing a pair of eyes that just...captures me),smile/teeth...and a couple other things that are important to me...soft hands and height...not too tall and not too short. :o)


Some stuff I like to do: I enjoy going camping,hiking,going for walks. i enjoy reading,writing(mainly do fantasy stories...it's been a while though since I've committed to writing one). I enjoy going out whether it's to see a movie or go out to eat. I enjoy going bowling,playing pool though I suck royally at both(I know that's what everybody says)...but who cares?...hehe.I also enjoy miniature golf,rollerblading,air hockey(make sure you wear finger protection...I really get into it...lip-quivering and all...lol).I enjoy road trips whether they be planned or spontaneous. I wanna get out there and see the country/world...one of these days.I enjoy going to games....any game is better watched live than on TV, nothing tops hockey though. I held a job once as waitstaff for the dallas stars and it was then I fell in love with hockey and no other sport will ever undermine that now...hehe. I'm also into playing RPG's: video games~i know this will seem elementary but I'm a hardcore mario and link fan...and PC games right now I'm playing my way slowly through diablo. Once upon a time I played borderline obsessively...not anymore. I'm doing more constructive things with my time.I also would like to admit I'm a text-a-holic. It's a convenient and cheaper way to communicate. Doesn't mean I wouldn't wanna hear your voice at some point. :o) I enjoy music of course...primarily I'm into rock~hard and alternative~and also into instrumental/symphonic type stuff(have come across some pretty neat pieces~~~i.e. dances with wolves soundtrack,some pieces from a knight's tale,pirates of the caribbean soundtracks...among others). I'm pretty much all up and down the ladder though aside from that...whatever sounds good I'll listen to. In addition to that there are 2 instruments I would LOVE to learn how to play: piano and bass guitar(i have the fingers for it~~~get your mind out of the gutter~~~lol).


One of my favorite quotes from the movie kingdom of heaven: "what man is a man that does not make the world better?"

Well that's enough for now. If you think you can handle me I would implore you to NOT hesitate in dropping me a message.

On a first date i would be pretty basic or trendy just to feel each other out. Go to the park...walk and talk kinda deal. Or to a laid back type of restaurant. Fun parks and the like(i.e. miniature golf,bowling,air hockey etc. etc.) are a great idea too.On the flipside of that i would love to do something ive never done before(i.e. skydiving). Going to movies is something i more believe in doing once a girl and myself start going together and doing it on occasion. If you should desire to speak to me more directly :P ```...choose one of the following IM services which is most convenient for you and drop me a line there. yahoo:darthtater32; hotmail:darthtater32; AIM:brr80786.(yes this was done in honor of a friend of mine who gave me the nickname "BRR" instead of roBERt). :o) 2 of my favorite movie quotes: "What man is a man,that does not make the world better?"(Kingdom of Heaven) "What we do in life,echoes in eternity" (Gladiator)