To make a long story short,my friends are always asking me why I'm single and I should date..blah blah blah. My job seems to take over at times. People say that I'm a good catch but I suffer from dating ADD. Sorry guys but I'm not a supermodel nor do I strive to be. I find it amusing that every guy on this site seems to be athletic. What's wrong with being average yknow? Or maybe one of them can whip me into an athletic girl. I'm a normal girl with a big heart and big goals. I just want to start off that just because I'm in my 30's doesn't mean I'm desperately looking to get married and have a crapload of kids right away. I'm really into my career which takes a lot out of me. Needless to say, it would be great to find a great person to spend time with and get to know. It would be great to meet someone that can teach me something new.

I'm quirky weird. And not only in that generic asian kind of way... I'm just wierd. My humor is off balance and maybe even a little twisted, but I like it that way so deal with it. I find myself appreciating lots of odds and ends. for example: the plastic dividers that gummi life savers come in, and canned cheese. What the heck right? But I guess that doesn't even matter.

I tend to crack jokes by somehow exposing the absurdity of things. That's because if you really get down to it; everything is ridiculous. Don't you think? Hmm well, maybe not everything... I don't think love is absurd. Haha, I'm such a sap, really. It's pretty funny though because I freak out hard, but I guess all the estrogen just gets so backed up that it figuratively explodes in giant bombs of gay. I can't help it. I'm a hopeless romantic.

Went to a kick ass college and got a cool diploma that says I'm a winner.

ALL OR NOTHING!!! that's my life's philosophy. I used to put a lot of myself into friendships and relationships that never returned the favor. Needless to say, it all went to shits and now here I am. Don't get me wrong, I'm a lot better now than I used to be. A whole lot less trusting, but all together... better. I do put the same kind of effort into the few frienships I do have, and the relationship that has saved my sanity; but i've just learned to be a bit more selective with those I love. A little exclusivity never hurt anybody, right?

An open mind is the most beautiful jewel of them all. If you have one, feel free to come join my treasure chest. I hate ignorance, but even more than that, I hate when people only know half the truth and still insist that they're right and then puts a stop to any sort of new information from penetrating their mind. Ugh, pretentious mother pluckers. Furthermore, only come to me if you are completely secure with yourself because I only want to be acquainted with real people, and not some pseudo personality that you put out there to fit in, or stand out, or whatever it is you people want these days.

I'm in my janky hodge podge room, trying desperately to describe myself. Why do I find this so difficult? Why can't i do that dark hair, 5'2", filipino, loves math; thing just like everybody else? I guess because I hold myself to higher standards so that I make sure to at least try and go the extra mile. And maybe that's the difference between you and me. I'm never content with what I have. in fact, I'm constantly striving for more. I'm just hoping that i'll stop once i've reached it.

Geez, I sound so serious. It's just odd because I'm actually the most light-hearted person in day to day life. I mean, I still chuckle at the word fart... how serious could I be? I love to laugh more than anything else. I don't get why people censor their laughter so much. Who cares if it sounds awkward??? The point is to let it all out!

I've heard that some people think I'm a snob. That's probably because I only smile when i mean it. If it's not absolutely needed, I will not put that fake face on just to make myself seem more pleasing to you. But when I do smile, and when I do mean it... oh, it is heavenly.

So basically, It would be really cool to meet someone that challenges me or can put me in my place.

Thanks for reading!

I think dates are pretty scary. It's like an interview and if you give someone the wrong answer then you're done. Something simple and not too overwheliming on the first outing would be cool. Coffee or happy hour is always nice. It would be great for someone to teach me something new, like hiking, fishing, or even camping. I would love to try something outdoorsy that doesn't involve a picnic.