It finally occured to me that the man of my dreams wasn't going to come knocking on my door with a glass slipper in his hand...so here I am. Being a cheerful optimist I know there are some great guys out there, the hard part seems to be finding them. I enjoy a healthy and active lifestyle. I spend several days a week at the gym and am a licensed yoga instructor. You don't have to be built like The Rock but it's important you be in shape and take pride in your appearance. I've never thought of myself as the girl next door...I've never been accused of being shy and I promise you'll never have to guess what's on my mind. I love the warmth of the sun on my face and the sand between my toes...my favorite vacations require only a bathing suit, a comfortable pair of shorts and a soft, baggy sweatshirt. I lead a simple yet comfortable lifestyle, my work hours are rather odd but I'm lucky to have lots of time to do what I please. I'm playful and fun, fond of animals, use swear words and talk dirty on occasion, spiritual but not religious, independent and strong willed but also flexible enough to respect the wishes and opinions of others. I'm a great cook, a meticulous housekeeper, a big flirt (only with you), and most important I'm a good friend. I'm not perfect, I don't claim to be. I know how to say I'm sorry when I'm wrong...do you? I hope to find a gentleman with old fashioned values who is flirtatious and affectionate in words and actions, has a sense of humor and a kind spirit, is emotionally available and financially secure, has a zest for life, is willing to open doors, kiss my cheek and hold my hand. Oh yeah, and a little thing called chemistry, I find you either have it for someone or you don't.