I try to enjoy every day that’s given to me and everyone who’s put into my life. That means we gotta match. On like every level. I believe a man and a woman need to match physically (don’t tell me looks don’t matter), mentally, and spiritually. So, I would add emotionally, but let’s get real. That’s like asking for a white wine that matches a good steak.

Physically, I am a fine specimen of a human being who is working hard to improve his physical well being. Every time I sign up for a gym membership I use it 5 or so times, and then I stop. So, this time I’m doing my own morning work out, and running on the treadmill. I would love to run outdoors, but I live in Fallbrook. We have more horse trails than sidewalks. Also, I would have a six pack, but my favorite beer (Dogfish Head) only comes in a four pack. No, I don’t have a beer belly. Although, beer jelly beans sound good right now.

Mentally, I am all there. Most of the time. Seriously, I view things differently than most people. I usually like to play the Devil’s advocate. I look at the bigger picture, and I base my decisions on my long term goals, rather than what feels right or easy at the time. All in all, I rock out to the beat of a different drummer. Speaking of which I am rocking out to ‘Pocketful of Sunshine’ by Natasha Bedingfield right now.

Spiritually, I am a Christian. And I am pretty damned scared that God is going to strike me with lighting for listening to Natasha Bedingfield. No, not really. While I consider myself semi-devout, I don’t really go to church. Partly because I can’t find a church I like; partly because I don’t see much value in church. It’s too fake. To me, I find just as much value in going to the church’s website and downloading the podcast as I do attending service. Sometimes, I go. I go to a weekly Bible study, so that’s where I get my “fellowship time.” Also, I tend to play the Devil’s advocate spiritually.

Anyways, if you made it this far, you’re either really bored, I am really that interesting, or you lost a bet. Either way, congrats, and it probably means we’re at least potentially a good match. So, go ahead and drop me a note. I return them all. Unless you start stalking me.

Oh yeah, according to POF, I should tell you these things: Hobbies: see blue links above; Goals: I'm a writer, and I'm starting my own SEO content writing business; taste in music: I like it all, except for acid, punk, and the like.

No movies. I've also found that bowling is a bad first date. The entire night consists of 15 second conversation snippets followed by 10-20 second intervals of awkward silence and/or fluff: "You'll get 'em next time" or "almost" or "good job." Aside from all of that, I'd rather you not lose all respect for me on the first night, after you beat me by doubling my score. Yes, I'm that bad.

So, if you have a dog, we can get our dogs together. if you enjoy such things as museums, we can tour museums, galleries, or what not. If you want to hold parrots or toucans, I know where we can do that . If you want to take a locomotive down to Tecate, we can do that. (the toucan thing and the Tecate thing are more of a 5th date type of thing). If you just want to grab some coffee and chat, we can do that.