On the one hand, I am a conservative, confident, financially secure widow with old fashioned morals and values. I have my work wardrobe, my books, my laptop, my gym gear, a few little black dresses and some really cute heels.

On the other hand, I am a warm, gentle, nurturing, easy going woman who likes to have a little fun. I also have my jeans, cute shoes, a fireplace, a wine rack, a variety of CD's, a set of golf clubs, a baseball glove, a bike, a few bathing suits and a little red BMW Z3 to tour around in.

What I don't have is a special guy to share things with.

I'm the kind of girl your mother would wish for you, and your dad would envy you for.

I think that meeting at St Jacob's Market would be a perfect first date. We could meet at the apple fritter place for coffee and a sample. Then we could chat while we walked about checking out what great things could be had in Waterloo County. I would probably buy you a little treat, and you would probably buy me one too. Sounds nice, doesn't it?