Retirement allows for time to share enjoying events together. Events such as dancing boating, live plays, movies, antique seeking, eating, playing cards, visiting friends, traveling, sight seeing and loving each other. It's not just about what I like to do but also about what you like to do also! I'm not expecting lightning, however mutually exciting times together are wonderful. Even a quite time sitting home watching television. I see compatability as also including patience and tolerability within reason.

Haveing coffee , ice tea or the like in a public place would probably be the most comfortable environment for a first meeting. Subsequent to that if each party feels all went well, a future date, or arrangements could follow. Let's see how it goes?