(I put 'looking' on pause.....)

" ~Atheism is a non-prophet organization~ " :)

Some attention spans run short...
........not a reader? Good luck and Happy



For me, there will be a certain look (I don't mean GQ), a twinkle in your eye. I will know.


I am:
*Happy *Compassionate *Goofy *Smart *Warm *Dependable *Discerning *Balanced *Spiritual *Authentic *Loyal *Honest *loving *And I know what I want
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***~>I have dreams and plans...hope you dream and plan too!


* GOD Is Top Priority in my life. *


Not looking to get 'test driven' y'all...(can't stand that lame reasoning...the right Man will appreciate this).

I grew up Out West, but a Southern Family has me a Southerner at Heart. :)



I treat people with kindness... I'd like to meet someone like that...a real, 'good' guy. Respectful, helpful, fun....someone who shares the desire of continued spiritual maturity....who is more of a "Mans Man" than a "Ladies Man".



Not looking for perfect! I think Big Guys are great, but more on the healthy side...I'm far,far from perfect, but I try to take care.
Really, I just want a happy existence between extremes. Ya know??



I believe there to be people who still have good moral values!


It would be great to meet a Christian man who enjoys the pursuit of his own spiritual growth.
I hope he will be down-to-earth and possess a stable, kind, and thoughtful heart...One who still dreams and has goals.
*Real spiritual men have a contagious character that can't be beat!

*......I think men are just so gosh-darn wonderful....someday, I'll have one of my own!
(I have always been attracted to tall because, I guess because I'm tall!) ~NOW - we all have our preferences....yes we do! :)



To have someone [I deeply respected] to count on....who genuinely cares (and to be silly with) would be so great!
Approx: 47-55 are good ages, I think...


love this quote:
**"Character is who you are when no one is looking"


**I enjoy the forums, writing and friends...That is a favorite reason for being here....for now. :)


*EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW:
How to fall in love without losing herself.. (good advice for anyone)

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At this point, I should ask that if you have 'control issues' or uncontolled emotional anything...better look for someone else. (Zero tolerance for selfishness).



Just some of thoughts:

***If you find that people love to be near you, you probably have what it takes!***


.....I'm thinking how nice it would be to find someone to go through time with, exploring this next exciting phase of our lives!


*I believe, You're not lucky, you're BLESSED! (funny means your doubly blessed)




***I am So happy right now, everything else will be a bonus!

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The right man for me will be relieved about this:

*I am a person on a continuous spiritual path...I will make some wonderful man very happy....you will have to trust me on that. But ~
* The next man I make love to......will be my husband...boy, I never saw anyone run so fast!
I want a relationship, for entertainment I'll go to a movie.

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*I've jumped out of a plane, para-sailed and rafted a part of the CO. river...
...But scarier than that, raised three kids! Also was the most rewarding...

*LUV live music! Especially Jazz and Blues --make it at the beach, all the better!


* I love the holidays! *The only Scrooge I'll love, is the movie. :)



*I enjoy cooking and baking...ya-yum! (Family to the hearth-thing). I love to entertain and my family and friends are extremely important to me.



*I BELIEVE if we were not enhancing each others lives, we should move on so the right person for us, may enter

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These next poems are, of course, not required reading, but reflect some of my views and thoughts...if you do take the time to read them, you may gather insight on me...(just as I know what you take time to put down on your pages would help me gain some insight on you!) :):):)'s


(A future dream)

Why I fell...

It was the pool of wisdom
- a pool with renewing waters
Flowing to an open mind
and curious nature....
It was the twinkle
behind eyes of knowing
- a spirit that laughed out loud
It was the new ideas
the wondrous thought
the quizzical nature
the mischievous grin
It was the fearlessness
the safety net...
him - bigger than life
yet gentle with that power
It was the endless learning
and wonder
and awe...
It was the adoration of who I am
through it all ~
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not looking for:

LUKE WARM

One foot on commitment
One foot fancy free
Not wanting to let go
Not wanting to go
The rest of the way
For one it's the believing
That they are taking it slow
The other (not one to be brave)
Is happy with the status quo
And so the Hope is enjoyed
And time marches on
And so it goes
Till the one who was waiting
Bows to the voice deep within
With tears of sadness
Begins the end
Time will mend one joyful
And one un-mended will stall
Uncertain in reflection
If he knew himself at all
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Confidant

There's place nestled deep in our soul
...A silent voice only we can hear
One that can make our day
... Or ruin our view
Rare is it that anyone sees
...Even rarer to let it be seen
But there are some in this life
To whom trust is a gentle breeze
Given a relief in the revealing
Wrapped up in a lover
Who is their best friend...
This is truly comfort
Secure to the end

Live music, live sports, picnic in the park when it's nice out, unique lunch or dinner spots,coffee and dessert, any suggestions?


NOTE:

If you tend to be negative (ask your friends) and into non-traditional relationships , you are on the wrong profile. Best to ya!
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Outside of 'I'


God must surly smile
When we stop for a while
And ponder wonder around us
Not focusing just on ourselves
But in the little details
That he put here to notice
It was in his great plan
When he created man
That these things come together
To work in harmony as one
Just like HIS Son
Who he sent to keep us tethered...
Come out of your worry
To the vast open doors
Nature slows hurry
And makes the soul soar
And in pondering,
Take in every leaf on the tree
And how He knows each one
But not better than you & me
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My Man...


It's going to take some kinda man
To win my heart....
He will be fearless,(gets'um'piders)and humble...
The twinkle in his eye,
Will keep secret his mischievous nature
He will find joy in who I am...
He will have concern for my happiness...
As I will his...
I will melt into his conversation and reflection
He will seek the dreams that cause his soul to grow
And he wont be afraid to see the future
With the possibilities of sharing it with me
His compass will be of God and of kind thought
He will house joy and laughter in his heart
He will seek wisdom and give it...
And handle the grill like a pro! ;)
He will be compassionate in love
And have interest in my thoughts
,,,,For if I will be all that for my man,
He is going to need for me, to want him to stay!

:):):)'s