hmmm ....

i am a down to earth person i know what i want out of my life. I'm pretty easy going and would love to meet someone who can deal without the drama. I've had my fair share of drama with past relationships and I am so tired of it.

i have just recently moved back to missouri. and oh how i miss the river!!

I LOVE to laugh and have a good time. I am shy around new people at first but once I warm up to people I can easily make others laugh. I have a silly sense of humor, goofy sometimes. I am kind and strive to treat others how I want to be treated!! I'd like to meet someone who doesn't mind going to a bar every once in a while but NOT all the time i like quiet evenings in but definately don't want to be around someone that always wants to go to a bar.

i have kids that have a daddy so im NOT looking for a daddy for my kids. i have goals and dreams im lookin for that someone to share them with. im at the point in my life where im tryin to enjoy like to its fullest.

i have guy friends that are really close to me and if you cant deal with that then i dont need you in my life at this time. speaking of my friends they say i have a unique personality thats makes me who i am. my family is important to me as well as my friends

HONESTY is really important to me also im a up front can be a bit blunt at times

im sure i left all kinds of stuff out but if you would like to know more just ask and i will be honest

oh yeah one more thing if you live like forever and a day away from me then prolly wont be lookin so much for a relationship with you but who knows. And seriously if your main pic is of only your dog, bike or something along that line i dnt want to sound vain or anything but come on in order to date someone you have to have some kind attaction to them.

well i guess here is where i should put what im looking for in a guy. im lookin for someone who can be willing to at a moment notice do something, someone who likes to have as much fun as i do, im looking for someone to date and hopefully turn into something wonderful and long lasting, someone who can make me happy makes me laugh.I would like to meet a man that i can eventually fall in love with!! a man that knows how to open a doors knows what he wants in life knows how to treat me like a girl should be treated. honestly it dont take much to do that.


i belive there is a lesson to be learned in everything we do, no matter what the situation. i want someone to share this wonderful journey we call life. due to some things thats has happened in my life the last few months i have relized life is to short and you only have one so live it to the fullest you never know what will happen.

Hobbies...hmmm, lookin to broaden them. I have aquired new goals for this part of my life, or should I say I am going to complete the goals I set before marriage and kids. I don't regret putting them on hold for my family, but it's time to fulfill them.

well i guess you have gotten this far into my book so mite as well send me a message and if not then good luck!!!! No humor? Need not apply

~~ ** ~DISCLAIMER~ ** ~~

I RESERVE THE RITE NOT TO RESPOND TO PERVERTS AND DUMBASSES AND IF YOU'RE LOOKING TO "HOOK UP" DON'T MESSAGE ME!!!!

.....here are some of my dating GUIDELINES (NOT RULES) to review as I have gathered them over the years...
1. Women are complex...accept it and move on.
2. Moods change....quickly. (See guideline one), roll with it.
3. Ask her out by Wednesday. Chances are she has a corresponding Wednesday rule. If you don't it will just look like your buddies were busy and she was an afterthought. Ask no later than Wednesday.
4. CALL when you say you're going to call!!!!!!!
5. Wear good shoes. Women have a thing about shoes. Bad shoes can be a deal breaker. You can have a bad shirt but you'd better make damn sure the shoes are on point. Don't ask me why.
6. Have a plan. Most like the effort of the man making a plan for a date...doesn't have to be extravagant, just show the effort.
7. Appreciate a woman that appreciates the little things.
8. Show no fear. Women smell fear a mile away.
9. Be funny
10. Ask good questions and listen to the answer
11. Be familiar with what is going on in the world.
12. Be on time. Better yet,,be early
13. Even if for only a minute or two, be a bright spot in her day.
14. SMELL GREAT, i do!!!
15. askin me where to go on a date is kinda a bad idea
16. cancelin at the last minute not such a good idea
17. HONESTY
18. did i already say call when you say your going to call?!?!?