Hi,
Am steve..Having been here before and was quiet upset and disgusted with the foolish approaches,i decided to give it some time and get back and see what happens.

Just like they say lightening does at times strike twice.Well,further more to why i was skeptical about this site when i left was mainly because i was approached by quiet the opposite of what i was looking for even if i explained in kind that i was'nt intrested in such ventures.

First and foremost,am not here on mild games but here with good intentions of finding a lady.I would appreciate if you really know you have this attitude at the end of day chatting nonsense to save it for yourself that way it may help you than just disgracing yourself and you know the lot of you.

Just helping you out since you cant seem to access yourselves.Am not out here looking for one night stands.emotional blackmailers,control freaks.cheats,extra load meaning thoses that cant seem to move on from there past like it was programmed on them,boring.well theses mentioned put me really off.



As for thoses that really dont know what they really want leave alone why they are still living...there is a better area on this site if you did'nt know and i recommend whoever finds it hard reading ones profile and understanding fully the essence of serious people, to find some help before even trying out the casual section of this site because all you will get yourself into is HARM.;




Such members really make me sick to the bone..sorry for being rude or inhuman..guess some people may think am arrogant which am not or abusive but its high time lol.

Am really sick and tired of getting mails of scams that really upsets me.I talk sense and would love sense out of someone. lol but like i mentioned earlier on i have come across nasty people online and am not ready to waste time on them reasons being they just dont even know who they really are naturally.

Am saying all this because due to the kind of mails i got and getting to know members who think of whats in a man trousers is all he is...is kind of sad to learn.
Well dont mistake me here,i do love sex but you got to respect it..in a sense of talking,having or whatever in a more reasonable nature but with the right person at the right time aswell good comes to thoses who wait is my thing.

My ideal lady would be,one that speaks out her mind,cooks.well not that she will be doing it all the time..coz i do love cooking aswell.lol

One who knows what she wants out of life,a good laugh,can hold a decent conversation,out going and entertaining.

Ps..Am not into skinny ladies sorry for being open here..but i do have to be at the end of day because im here on a serious note and my best preference at hand for that matter.


Things am into basically are,reading,going to dinners,walking,art,staying indoors,listening to music,cooking etc..So many cant really list them here.lol

I would want to find a lady that inspires and up to achieve her goals aswell as me putting in more effort to see she meets them.

A lady that does'nt walk all over a man.One that acts herself and got respect because i do ve lots of respect for such a lady.


Well,having said much i guess i will be putting down more in due course.However thanks for passing by whoever it maybe and dont get scared ok just outlining facts here.

ps..Well i have'nt been messed up like it may sound but am not up for certain nosense and when i sense it i really get pissed..Am a decent gent with what i do and i expect when i pick up a conversation with anyone,i should expect the person in question to read betwwen the lines rather than say out alot of unpleasant stuff,I believe when you seek something solid as far as a relationship is concern i expect patience,honesty and understanding to be applied thats the reason why certain people that mailed me before were really a waste of space and time...Am not up for such really.

First date is all down to the first impression both parties agree on..but having a mature discussion on how it should go is all that matters makes it worth the go.