I like time on my motorcycle. I think I have a real good sense of wonder. So I’m curious and interested in lots of things. I’m interested in building and maintaining a great lasting relationship with someone, I would hope it would be for my partner too. I like western art galleries, mountain trails, walks along the river, hot springs, art shows, concerts, rodeos, day trips, weekend getaways, back roads, out of the way places, fly fishing, and photography, cool mountain mornings, patio with a fire at sunset, lavender and vanilla, puppies, grizzly bears, time on my motorcycle, and staying in and spending quality time with someone special. I would hope that my partner would share some of these interests too. I wouldn’t expect someone to have that whole list in common but that should give you an idea on where I’m coming from.
I think several dynamics combine to create a successful relationship. Mutual respect is the one trait that I've consistently seen in long, successful relationships. These couples listen to each other, are considerate of each other, speak highly of each other, are sensitive to the wants and needs of each other, are more than willing to compromise, are best friends. Respect allows ongoing personal growth; disallows manipulation, control, condescension, and ridicule. Goals are shared; dreams are enabled. I also think that these couples choose wisely in the beginning. You know the old saying “opposites attract”, but I don’t think opposites last. I think people in a relationship have to have basic interests, goals and values in common. Trust and communication is the foundation for a good and lasting relationship.
I am looking for someone with whom to share life's triumphs and defeats; a companion to go out and fun with, or sit home and just be with. I want, more than anything, to share a deep and spiritual love with someone who can accept me and see me right down to my soul; someone I can love unconditionally. I want to laugh and be serious with someone I can trust with my "best friendship." I want to find the "higher love," the special and unique relationship that is so hard to find. I’m looking for someone who’s happy and content with themselves first. I believe every thing we are looking for is right there all we have to do is look within ourselves to find it. I’d like someone who shares my interests and values, and has a positive outlook on life. Someone who knows the meaning of true love, someone who doesn’t think it’s too late to find it and someone who isn’t afraid of it.
I've reached the point in my life that I don't NEED a relationship, that's not to say I don't WANT one. I think to be free of that needy part gives me more freedom to take my time and choose wisely. I'm content and happy with myself who I am and who I've come to be...comfortable in my own skin as they say. I know myself pretty well. I’ve learned from my mistakes, I’ve had my ups and down but life is good all in all. I’m kind of a Wranglers and boots guy, but I do clean up well and can rise to the occasion. I'm not sure that I have the power to make someone happy, but I believe two people can share in the happiness they have in themselves. I believe the result of two people coming together in that way is far greater than the sum of their individuality. I don’t want to change anyone or be controlling I want you to be you if it works out GREAT. We are all who we are. People don’t grow in the shadow of someone else. I also don’t want a “project” and I don’t need fixing.

I think something quiet.....good food......good conversation....and getting to know each other.