Me....
Open minded
Varied interests
Sometimes plan......sometimes not
Always believe who you're with out rates what you're doing....
Enjoy both the outside and the inside of a person......
Comfortable in large groups or by myself
Health and fitness are very important....
I’m a good listener and enjoy hearing other’s opinions….
Usually able to find a positive slant on most circumstances…..
Can bathe and dress myself as well as comb my own hair…..
You...
Surprise me.....

I do value certain qualities……
For instance,
You’re a great conversationalist and you’re able to see various sides of an issue
You probably have smile lines
Your friends would say you have unquestionable honesty and integrity
Your intelligence ranges from common sense decisions to complex matters
You have a limited criminal record

You’re an excellent companion for a company function, a night at the ballgame, a black tie affair, a movie at home, dinner with good friends, and even an outing which might call for your favorite heels and the “almost too short” skirt.

I offer you the same.....less the skirt of course.....


I certainly believe a committed relationship/partnership will add tremendous value/enjoyment to my life....

Conversely, I’m not obsessively driven to be married in the next week or next hour....

The best way to describe my goal for the site is to ultimately meet someone where we both believe ‘It’s more fun to be with each other than without”


As I’ve had the opportunity to meet a few people on the site it’s been interesting to listen to some of the concerns that were shared:

“The guy got upset because I didn’t respond to his email”
Can’t figure that one out....Maybe some men/women feel slighted if there’s no response to an email. I’ve chosen to take a more pragmatic view. While it’s nice to think every last female on this site becomes electrified at the thought of meeting me……reality has taught me there are at least a few of those who might not consider the idea overly stimulating. That being said……if I do send you an email and you’re one of the rare few in the “not interested” category, I commit I will not experience lingering personal damage and will not respond with a follow up email questioning your manners, conduct or other behavioral qualities……

“We met for a drink. At the end of the evening the guy suggested we become an exclusive couple”
Wow...call me old school…however, I think I’ll need at least a 2nd meeting before I can strongly advocate we go steady, exchange class rings, get matching tattoos, procreate, or send more than 10 text messages in a 24 hour period. In essence, it’s wonderful if I meet someone and it turns out to be “long tem”. Saying that, I think it takes a long term to build the “long term”....hope that makes sense.

I’m very flexible...a convenient location. Conversation is key so any place that supports that is good by me. If the evening includes a really good margarita...that’s another plus.