looking for a kind and caring guy one that cares how my day went as much as i do his . a big cuddly teddy bear who likes giving hugs cuz i love to recieve them . a guy who doesnt mind kids and understands they arent perfect and sometimes can drive you nutz but also understands that they also come first . a good listener , supportive and has to have a sense of humor . someone who will appreciate that when im trying to show my feelings for someone i tend to try and do everything for them , i like to cook , allthough i despise doing the dishes afterwords , i like to take care of everyone around me but find it hard to focus just 5 minutes of time on myself . i would much rather stay in and watch a movie or talk rather than go out to a noisy bar or whatever . most of all i just want someone to love me for me and not try to change me , or tell me that im not doing things right . i dont look right or dress right or act right . i am me and if you can live with that then great if not then im not sorry . oh and also im not looking for someone who is only looking for a sexual relationship so if thats what ur hoping to find here then im sorry to say it aint happening to keep on looking .... elsewhere . also i like it when a guy shows up with flowers just because or calls/texts in the middle of the day just to see how your day is going and let you know he is thinking about you . its great when you know there is someone out there that is thinking about you as much or more than you are thinking about them . im not saying im looking for a big sappy sensitive guy but i dont want a cold hearted @sshole either . you must have some feelings and care about other peoples feelings and how your actions and/or words can effect the other person . im so sick of guys that just dont give a damn if what they say or do hurts someone else .

whatever works and is comfortable for the both of us