So if you're sick of meeting/going out with the creepy douchebag idiots that only seem to want something if it benefits them (not neccessarily you) keep reading, I'm not that guy, or even close. If you're looking for a nice NORMAL guy that isn't creepy, is usually funny (sarcastic and funny one-liners), smart, caring, and an all around good person than you finally found me. Where have you BEEN???

I'm just tired of the games, the lies, and the bar scene is not a good place to meet people. I'm a funny, very genuine person and one of the best people you'll ever meet. I'm looking for someone that will be my partner in crime and my muse, and will make me want to play hookie from work to just veg at home or re-live Ferris Buellers Day Off. I am a NORMAL guy with flashes of greatness, I still believe in being a gentleman and opening doors for people, and I believe that chivalry isn't dead, it's just resting. I can be the sweetest and most sincere person you know yet I'll can also be the most sarcastic person you'll ever meet. I play golf whenever I can, pool on a regular basis, and I'm in a few softball leagues so yes I stay active and combined with my job I stay in pretty good shape. I have more friends than I know what to do with sometimes (a lot of female friends so if you can't handle that move on, and no they're not "those" type of friends) but no one special to do things with. I'm sick of the bar scene and my friends won't set me up (they're pickier than I am) so here I am. I'm getting kind of tired of being the great guy that's a great catch but is single. I'm not perfect nor do I claim to be but I always do my best or better at anything I do. I'm looking for "Ms Right" not "Ms Rightnow" whether you believe me or not is up to you but I'm sure after you meet or talk to me for a few minutes you'll find out that I'm not joking about that and you'll find out that I am truly a very sincere, honest guy that is worth knowing. Who knows, we might just be right for each other.

Oh and ladies just a hint EVERYONE likes to travel! You know why? Because you're not at home doing the same things you always do. Its called breaking the monotony.
And if a sense of humor was the biggest requirement (which it seems it is) I would never be single. Seriously if the most important thing really was a sense of humor wouldn't Paul Rudd or Seth Rogan be more popular than Mick Jagger? Granted I know there has to be an attraction and I know you can't see someones personality from across a crowded bar (Hey look at the sense of humor on that guy!) but come on, be honest.

Oh and something about me. I am laid back but I'm also a no non-sense type of person. I call things like I see them and treat people how I want to be treated, on that note I also react to people based on how they treat me. I don't care what you have, where you're from, who you know, what you do for a living, or what you make, if you treat me and others with respect you have mine. I do not nor will I ever pass judgement on people, its not my place to do so. I take people for how they deliver themselves to me and accept people for what and who they are and I can pretty much get along with anyone.

Well you can't get to know someone at a movie, crowded bar, and I'm not much of a club person so I'd have to go with a somewhat traditional dinner first. Then to a somewhat quiet bar for a few drinks and some sort of activity so there's no chance of that "uncomfortable silence" which is a rarity around me. You do have to understand that I'm the type of person that can have fun in an empty room by myself (don't pervert that but extra points if you did) and I tend to keep that mentality. Regardless you'll be laughing at the end of the date and hopefully want another. Oh and a disclaimer; I know the standard "dinner date" might be uncomfortable and may make you feel like you're stuck if you're not interested, not true. I value honesty and if you're not having a good time I'd rather be told that than sit there thinking there's still a chance. I actually had someone tell me that she wasn't ready to date after her breakup and I told her "Fine, the dates over. Now we're just hanging out!" It ended up being a great night and we were friends for years until she moved away. No stress, no problems.