9/12/09 I APOLOGIZE FOR NOT BEING ABLE TO RESPOND TO ALL EMAILS. MY PLAN HAS NEVER BEEN TO MAKE A LOT OF FRIENDS ON POF, AS MY INTEREST IS ONLY IN CONNECTING AND BUILDING WITH ONE QUALITY INDIVIDUAL. I LIKE WHAT I LIKE. I'M NOT GOING TO MAKE EXCUSES FOR IT. MY ATTRACTION AND WHAT BRINGS ME TO A PLACE TO WANT TO KNOW MORE IS REAL AND GENUINE. PLEASE NOTE, I WILL NOT ACCEPT ANYTHING LESS THAN WHAT I CAN GIVE, THIS IS EMOTIONALLY, FINANCIALLY, SPIRITUALLY, RELATIONALLY. I DON'T LIKE THE B-BOY THUG LOOK NOR DO I FIND MYSELF ATTRACTED TO GUYS IN WHITE TEES, BAGGY JEANS AND FITTED CAPS. I LIKE WHAT MY MOMMA CALLS CLASSIC NEO SOUL ELEGANCE (IE. COMMON, HILL HARPER, FONSWORTH BENTLY). IF YOU WEAR JEANS, WHICH I FIND RATHER SEXY, PLEASE ENSURE THEY FIT YOU. I HATE TO HAVE TO WRITE THIS. BUT, I JUST WANT TO BE HONEST. I AM AN AVID READER AND I TEND TO PICK UP THE BOOKS WHO COVERS INTRIGUE ME. NO NEED FOR YOU TO USE REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY TO SWAY MY INTERESTS OTHERWISE, I AM FULLY AWARE OF ALL THE "SAYINGS" AND THOUGHTS SURROUNDING ONE'S ABILITY TO EXERCISE THEIR FREEDOM OF CHOICE IN REGARDS TO ATTRACTION.

I decided to join Plentyoffish, simply because I desire someone to share life with. I miss and do enjoy the beauty of getting to know someone and the anticipation which comes a long with it. I would be remiss to not say I seek something deeply rooted with eventually the mutual understanding with one man, that we will commit to discover more about one another. I'm not here to waste anyone's time and I understand that everyone here has their preference and should know what they are or are not ready for.

I just believe the more I step outside of the box the more closer I will get to connecting with the "one". I'm honestly excited about the possibility of meeting someone here.

I am emotional, mentally, spirtually and financially stable and seek the same in a man. I seek to contribute to someone's already fulfilled life and I do not need nor do I desire to connect with someone to "complete" me. I am already whole, but honestly desire to find someone in which we compliment each other's swag.

I know men want to know and feel that they are loved and adored. They want to know and feel that the special Lady in their life appreciates everything (the good, bad, ugly and all in between) about them and what he represents in her life. I know this because everything I seek has to be mirrored to who I am. We should definitely be reflections of one another.

I hope we can at least share a conversation with the intentions of getting to know one another for friendship, with the possibilities open to more.

I have grown to except that I like a certain thing and I have grown past the need to except just anything. I like what I like!!!

While I would like to say that I will respond and talk to all, I know this is not true as I am not interested in numbers, but rather 1 quality Man to get to know.

Write me to find out more about me. I promise you won't be disappointed. Hmmmmmmm...I can best describe myself as the moment between "I like you" and "I love you". I'm the girl who runs outside in a rain storm and drags you along with her...just to see you smile when you realize you are living carefree. I enjoy so much in life and just can't seem to take it for granted.

I hope to hear from you!!!

Hmmmmmm, my first date needs to be something out of the ordinary. No, dinner and a movie, or long walk on the beach or even a stroll in the park. Maybe, a cooking class together or even painting a picture together. I want to leave you thinking that I can't wait to see you again. Please be spontaneous and couragous!!! If you've wanted to take the plunge and have been resistant in doing so...try closing your eyes and falling. Trust me...I'll catch you.