I enjoy hanging out with my kids and my granddaughter. Family is first with me and always has been. My 3 kids are 27, 25 and 20 now. I am so proud of ALL of them. I am so very blessed because I didn't have to go through what most parents go through raising their kids. I don't have the drama that I hear so many people have had with their kids or continue to have. I could not be any prouder of them than what I am already!! My daughter and her fiance blessed the family with a beautiful little girl last September. She is the sunshine in my life and the pep in my step. My youngest son got married to the most wonderful lady. She is my dream daughter inlaw. My kids have always taken priority in my life and they continue to be. I just now have an addition to them, and that is my grandbaby and my new daughter inlaw.

I also enjoy hanging out at the drag strip and watching my two boys race their Mustangs and or Nova. This past summer my oldest pulled a full back bumper touching wheelie!! It was AWESOME. I even raced myself a couple of times... :-) My daughter is guilty of racing now and then too. I am still trying to get her to bring her Mustang to the track to see if she can beat her ol mom!! Oh yea in case you haven't caught it, we ALL own Mustangs!!!! You know FORD.... First On Race Day!!! lol And please, there is no need for you to email me any of the negative sayings for Ford either. I probably have heard them all!!!.... haha :-P

I enjoy cruising with the top down on my Mustang when the weather cooperates!! There are days that I just hit the highway with the stereo cranked up and just chill. You might say it's my vice to unwind.

I also enjoy fishing, and yes I DO bait my own hook and remove the fish off the hook but don't like to eat fish. I also very much enjoy going to the Comedy Club.

I enjoy all types of music. I like a lot of the old music from the 50's through current. I enjoy most modern Country and Rock n Roll and some Hip Hop. Although I'm not big on the head banging type of music, I do enjoy some. I also enjoy R & B. I have in the recent years found myself enjoying Michael Bouble's (not sure if I spelled his last name right)type of music. My all time favorite artist would have to be Gary Allan though. I LOVE his music. He has such a distinct voice.

I also enjoy just hanging out at home and watching a movie as well as going to the movies. I love comedies as well as good drama and action type movies but absolutely NO Creepy or Scary ones. I have never have been into seeing those types of shows.

I was married and with the same man for around 25 years. We are good friends now. I have also been engaged twice since my divorce. After living with both men, I found out some things about them that I wasn't willing to settle for, and in the end called off the engagements. If we decide to meet, I might elaborate more on that but not at this time. I learned a lot being in those relationships though. I now know without a doubt, what I DO & DON'T want and will not settle for anything less. I have some health issues that make it where I am not able to work. But for those out there that might be thinking one thing or another, let me put your minds at ease and say that they are not health issues that another human being can catch. If I decide to meet with you I might expand on what those issues are.

Having said that let me share with you what it is that I DO want in a man.
What am I looking for in a man??? HMMMM I would have to start off by saying honesty and GREAT communication skills!! See, here's the thing, you can love a person until eternity but if you can't communicate it, then how do they know how you or the other person feels. If you can't communicate then the relationship doesn't have a chance. I would then say lots and lots of affection!!! I can't seem to get enough of it!! The other thing that would be nice is that they have separate interests and friends as well as the ones that we would share. The reason being is, I enjoy spending time together as much as anyone but I also enjoy spending time with my own friends as well. I don't want a jealous or controlling man either. Been there done that, NOT doing it AGAIN!! I Know what I want and will NOT settle for anything less. Life is to short and I am getting to old to keep trying. So without sounding rude, if you have any kind of a substance addiction, and this would include but not limited to alcohol, drugs, smoking and even gambling, please don't contact me. It won't work! If you have problems with being jealous or controlling, please look elsewhere because It won't work. If you don't agree that family is first then please don't contact me because it won't work. For those that might think that I am coming across as a @#$%^ then you are probably not what I am looking for anyway. For those of you that are looking for the same, then you will appreciate the fact that I have been straight forward about what I do or don't want. This is the one thing that you would know about me right away if you met me in person and that is I am a "what you see is what you get" kind of person. I don't mean to offend anyone by being so blunt, after all wouldn't you rather a person be straight up then beat around the bush???

Ok, you might be saying to yourself but what does this gal have to offer. Well let me share some things about myself. I have been told on many occasions that the one word people would use to describe me is "PASSIONATE". I either feel very strong "PASSIONATE" about something or am laid back about it. That really helps to when picking your battles too... :-) I have been told I'm a good cook, now I said good NOT the greatest...lol. Well at least I haven't had any complaints to date that I have been told about... I have also been told that I have a awesome personality as well. I feel that being told that is one of the greatest compliments a person can be given. Reason being is the outside of what we are can be changed in the blink of an eye, but who you are on the inside can not be altered!!

On the first date I would like to just meet for coffee some where quiet where we can get to know one another.

For those of you who took the time to read my profile and decide that its not what you are looking for, then i wish you the best in your search for that special someone that does. For those of you that like what you read then I look forward to hearing from you.