im looking for someone who is confident with himself, who's sane, loving, affectionate, dedicated, not committed to anyone else... im looking for good conversation, fun and silliness, laughing and sharing those playful moments together... one who can be spontaneous, open minded and sexually creative in his relationship... a bit of a wild streak is def. ok... ;)

im a pretty healthy 38 y/o woman, 5'6" 120 lbs, originally from south central pa and have lived in WV for the past 8 years... i have never been married, and of course the little girl inside me still dreams of it someday... but thats Someday, with no rush or pressures for it... im a mom to a beautiful young lady, 20... and three handsome boys 17, 12, & 10... ive been single for the past three years and im ready to start that next chapter in my life... my past relationship was with my boys' dad of 14 years... and yes we still remain friends. im telling you this because, i Know hes a good dude... but, i also Know, thats hes just Not for me... we do share two kids together, and of course we tried everything we could to make it work... but in all reality of it, were just not good at being a couple, so we BOTH decided to end it... first off im a scorpio woman, im not one to play.. i take all of my relationships very serious... i put alot of me into them and work very hard to keep them healthy and thriving... but after some time, you accept the inevitable... and i dont hate, we dont fight, were not trying to f*#k up each others lives, so there are no unresolved problems or crazy kinda baggage from it... we really just want to see each other happy... so we both, have turned that page... my roots here arent necessarily permanent right now, so relocating could be a great possiblity... im ready to give and recieve everything that couples share, and find that special someone... to share in my life, make Beautiful and Amazing kinda memories with... to finally, just maybe... find My love...

im the kinda chic who loves laughing and making people laugh, i love most all forms of having fun, even if its the fun of trying... I do try to enjoy life the best i can and see no reason to hold anything back... im Not your average type of "good girl" i am more wild, crazy, and silly for the most part... all in fun of course, im not trying to take life so seriously, just cuz our time really is sooo limited and i want to be able to enjoy it to the fullest extent... I do tend to walk the edge of life, fully understanding and knowing that there are always limits... With age comes wisdom, ya live and Hopefully ya learn... Im not afraid to be myself and im comfortable with myself, I can go from being a complete goofball to, behaving properly as a lady... i have my Style and i can show Class... I can go with the situation as it is and know what is appropriate... I have a huge heart, Im very playful and like expressing my love, I am into public affection... To kiss you whenever it feels rite, really should Never be a problem... With MY man, i Absolutely strive to Please... im happiest when i can bring him smiles and satisfaction... i have been recently called up on my "lifestyle"
(question... is being fun and creative, a lifestyle???) anyhow, just for the record... my "Lifestyle" is what You, as My partner... would want to explore and experience with me...


My Here and Now are pretty important to me... i am very Open minded, and Romantic... im Hardworking, Trustworthy, Loyal and Honest... In touch with my emotions, and Very, very Spontaneous, and that i Really just Do Not like to plan things so much... im Well-built, Brave and Tough when i need to be. im Supportive and Caring... Earthy, Creative and Artistic, and i tend to be a Dreamer... i like to Think forward... and im Always thinking... i can be very Stubborn and Hard headed at times, but i am very Determined... im not normally an angry type person, but if anyone would Ever try to hurt me or my kids... well, lets just say im a Mom, and i will protect them with my everything...

A big difference between myself and alot of other chics are, that im not a big on flowers, or jewelry... and im Not materialistic really im more about the simple things in life like, maybe you picking a flower from the wild, rather then buying a huge bouquet... or even just a little note from you, means a World More to me... my interest with You is having, Your complete and total love, Your honesty, Your loyalty and Your respect for me, i want it to come truely and naturally from where it should always come from, your Very heart and soul...

Some of my hobbies include crafts, photography, and Anything music... listening to it, singing to it, dancing to it, just feeling it move through me... although, im not really into rap or country so much...
I always ask people if they had to choose, would they want to see or hear... For me, i would give up my sight to hear, Anyday!!!
Im not too much into tv but i like watching movies, more into Comedies and Horror movies...

So now, with all that being said, i Really am just an easy going, go with the flow kinda chic, that loves to laugh and have fun...

if you have read all the way through my essay, yayyyyy you made it! i know its long, but i appreciate you taking time to read it... if interested, then send me a message... i do try and answer all emails... remember, the days that pass by are days that are gone forever)

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its never really about where you go or what you do, its the company that makes it memorable, but if i had to say things to do, i spose dinner at a nice, quiet restaurant or even a picnic... maybe a few drinks with some dancing, and then to bring it back down to the quiet and more intimate level, a nice walk alone or a nice drive on a long road to no place in particular to talk and get to know each other and to see if there are any connections that may be developing, im sure we'll both know by the end of the date if there are any real connections or not...