I am a dad first and foremost, to three beautiful and wonderful kids. I manage a fairly demanding job, parenting and work out schedules, but time can always be found when the desire is there to find it (as in for the right woman). I believe strongly in some old school (imagine that) fundamentals - chivalry, politeness, and karma - and am basically a very laid back and fun guy. I am the guy who: never wore jeans in high school, because everyone else did - who loves to make everyone comfortable and confident in themselves - has a naughty streak, but knows when it's appropriate - who is appreciative, both of the little things and of the accentuation's that make men and women different. I think I am a catch (though I am not arrogant), and am looking forward to some lucky girl discovering how lucky being with her makes me.

First date - first "blind" date or after getting to know a bit about her on here...lets answer both!

If I didn't know a thing about you - dinner. Nice restaurant (one that has candles), my treat (see chivalry above), few glasses of Kendall Jackson's best, and lots and lots of conversation. Things go well we could hit a bar after to dance, or have some more upbeat fun. Ending with a long kiss goodnight, and wishes on both our parts that we could give in and do what we wanted - but won't for knowing that what we want needs time if it is to really thrive.

I have met you online, and we have a good idea we are compatible and attracted...
Something fun, bowling, gambling, dancing, sporting event, picnic (with kite) - someplace we can let loose and discover truly if what is behind the online persona matches the real world and just laugh and enjoy the company. Ended much as above, with a long kiss goodnight and mutual cravings for more, but sticking to our guns with the knowledge that what we want long term...is worth it to wait a little.