I don't know how to do this dating thing. I've really been trying. I have no clue what to say to you guys any more. I tell the truth and answer your questions and I'm nice and genuine. I don't lie I don't push. I saw a heading once that said something about these profiles being bulls$%t, I wonder if it was the truth. I'm not here looking to get laid for the night (for long term yes).

I have a sense of humor, sick sometimes but it's still a sense of humor, some of you are so damn serious what the heck and you don't know it either. If your a person who enjoys life and would like to share it with someone like me please contact me. I'm not perfect but I have some really great quality's if you take time to get to know me. I am looking for and offering respect and happiness. I don't do drama, chaos or meanness very well at all. Don't like yelling and scream.

I am a animal lover and have a dog and cats. I love my grand baby insanely and she is a active part of my life. My daughter and granddaughter don't live with me but they live close. I like rock and roll and the blues, those are my two favorites. I do like all music however. I love the outdoors but I'm not a big sports person as far as I won't be running any marathons. But I'm not afraid of outdoor activity's such as canoeing or bike riding, I just don't have anyone to do those things with anymore. I will Definitely support someone if that's there thing and it's not something they will try to push on me. I'll support you over the finish line and through training, and give you the rub down you deserve for the accomplishment, and through the training lol. I enjoy writing but haven't in a longtime. Mostly children's stores I hope to begin again and I would like someone to support me with that.

I do enjoy a good time and a party. I like to gamble, fish, Bar BQs, parks, 4wheeling, dancing, laughing. I will try anything once, twice if I like it. lol I enjoy camping haven't in a long time. Would love to.

I'm good to my man. I treat him with love and respect, the way I'd want to be treated. I believe that a relationship isn't always 50/50 sometimes it's 20/80 or 30/70. Sometimes I got you, sometimes you got me, sometimes we are standing side by side, hell sometimes we may be face down in the dirt side-by-side anyway it is we got each others backs.

I want someone to hold me each night with an I love you and a kiss and wake in the morning with a kiss good morning and a I love you. I hope to find a lover, a friend, a partner, a mate, someone to tell my secrets to, someone to do hobbies with, someone to take Sunday drives with, someone to hold me when I cry and I him. I want the someone that's gonna need me now and when we're in our 70's. I'm not delusional I know it's not always fun but the good should out way the bad. I do realize a relationship takes time and needs to grow. I know and I don't want an instant relationship. I just want to like someone and someone to like me and we want to be together more then apart.


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A first date can very... It can be as simple as a ride to the beach and watch the sun set or a night at the track. A drink somewhere and then dinner.
I put the best pic in the last year up so I look my best at first glance. I'm not trying to mislead anyone. The pics are dated. I know how disappointing it can be to meet someone and they no longer look like there profile pic and hasn't for 10 or more yrs. My pics are from summer 2008 up to Sept. 2009. When someone sees me they say I look like my pic. I really hate when a guy sends me an old pic that they haven't looked like in ten years or more. Now I don't mind them having them with other pics that are resent yes I like that, but two different ball games.

So take care and I'm here to meet someone to love and to love me. I'm not delusional I know that most dates will be that just a date and hey I am so cool with that and we can always walk away friends. The only time we all have problems is when I'm not into someone and they think I should be. I can't see how people want to push themselves on to someone if you don't dig me you just don't dig me I ain't gonna change your mind with force, lol. When a guy wants to walk away we walk to the door and hug each other good bye, rather part friends. (Now if your rude, we don't walk to the door side by side, lol.)

Why do you guys look at me but don't say anything is it that many of you that don't want to say hi to me (damn :( Candy) everyday a few look but hardly ever say anything what does that mean (dumb ass Candy it means "they are just not into you" (no haven't seen the movie probably should), but it sounded like that right thing to say. But I do have to say I am about ready to cry "UNCLE" with this dating thing...lol...