Ok guys we all know that dating sucks, its awkward and nerve wracking, your always wondering whether your doing something right or saying something wrong. Yet we still put ourselves through that because of our natural need to share our lives with someone. In the end thats all that matters, to have that one person that is the first thing you think of when you wake up and the last thing you think of before you go to bed, and dream of in between.

Thats what I'm looking for, and it seems to me that all the romance in this world has been sucked out and no one still believes in that storybook. I guess i'm a hopeless romantic in that sense because I am one of the few that think its still out there. Nothing wonderful is ever easy, and you have to swim through the sh*tto get to the sunshine. Damn here I am rambling, lets get to the basics.

My name is Robert, I'm 28 yrs old, hey its ok 30 is the new 20 right? I was in the Army for six years and now I'm home getting my life right. I have a six yr old son that lives with his mother, but thats a story for another time. I like to have fun, I'm not a party animal but I have been known to cut a little loose and crazy at times. I love music of all kinds, and I am a movie nerd.

I have an awesome circle of friends, and family, they are my center and keep me balanced. I love to sing karaoke, just get up there and throw it out. I am not a closed off person, I like to throw myself out there and see what comes back. I am at that point in my life where if you don't like me for me I'm not gonna change for you.

Back to the whole what I'm looking for in a woman, I am looking for that person that gives me butterflies, and that I know will still give me butterflies years after we get together. That one that will still make me feel that thing, that spark that I felt the first time we met, no matter how many times we see each other. I know its sounds a little corny and cheesy but hey isnt that what its supposed to be. Hallmark didnt make all those cards for nothing you know.

Ok I've gone on long enough and if your still reading then mabye you'll go just a little further and send me a message. I would love to know all about you and see what happens, drop me a line, I can't wait to hear from you.

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Feel free to IM me if you want to talk, or joke or whatever I sit at a computer all day at work so I'm always on.....

See thats a funny question because your first date depends on the woman you are taking. I can do dinner and a movie the good old fashioned way. Although a talk and a walk is nice to. It depends on the situation.