I like being outside, riding quad, listening to the ocean, watching the waves, watching the sunset over the ocean. I like working with my hands. Goals...I used to know. The only goal I know right now is that I am really tired of being alone, I want to change that. Life isnt as important and fulfilling when you are alone. I am an average NICE guy. Not into playing games, not into lies or anything harmful. I like most kinds of music. Not really into headbanging, brain cell killing or music thats meaningless. I volunteer with the local fire department, actually a Captain, and I am a EMT. I own my own car, have a full time job, and am current with the bills and mortgage. I enjoy taking short day trips, and would love to find someone to share longer trips with...international eventually..if "we" could ever afford it! I do have some dreams, fantasies, hopes, and desires. Nothing to weird or out there, I promise! So what am I looking for..someone who is kind, true, open communicator, loves kids, and is willing to work beside me as an equal. A best friend, a companion, an equal, a lover, a confidant. Someone who truely knows what a commitment means and is willing to fight for it. I am not afraid of children, not afraid of commitment, not afraid of the tough and hard times. I am willing to do whatever I have to to find one to be happy with, and make sure it lasts...forever. If that is what you wnat, then anything is possible!

First dates are tough. Dinner and a movie? Do you have to worry about kids or the babysitter? A walk on the beach? Just sitting and talking? Or a mix? I kinda go with the flow and what works for eveyone. We are adults with lives and families, so a "normal" first date like we had when teens is difficult or impossible. ol.