Hi I am a mother of a growing two year old son and I also raise my niece and nephew(12 and 14). I have been single by choice for about two years. Since I have been single I have learned don't settle for anything just say to say you have someone. I have learned to have patience and you will be blessed with what you deserve. I am a very head strong woman, independent woman who has a plan in life, but I am a woman that still needs that special man to make my life complete. Men don't think that I am a woman that is so independent to were I think that I don't need a good man around because every good woman needs a good man no matter how independent we might think we are. I love going to the movies or just relaxing at home. I am very opened minded to new things long as I am enjoying myself as well as my date. I will listen to any kind of music long as I can move my head to it. At this time I am going to school online to become a parole officer for juviniles and maybe becomeing an representive that sits on the parole board.

I am looking for a man that is 100 about everything he says and do. Keep it real. Tell me whats going on in your life and let me decide if I want to deal with it.

I would love to have a first date that will lead to many more dates. I want us to be able to be into each other that we are on the phone before you leave my parking lot. It can be a ride around the corner and just sitting in the park to get to know one another long as we have a very interlectual conversation.