A GOOD BLACK MAN

A good black man doesn't agree with everything you say all the time. He doesn't just tell you what you want to hear and do the opposite. He doesn't declare how sensitive, sweet, caring, sincere, etc. he is (he
won't have to because it shows). He has his own opinions and yours may
clash, but he doesn't have to degrade you to prove he's right. He even
admits at times to being wrong, especially if you are willing to do the
same.

A good black man is not going to meet every item on your checklist. He
is human with frailties and faults mixed in with all of his wonderful,
strong attributes. He needs your love and respect. He needs to feel
that you don't live to catch him doing something wrong so you can
declare, "Aha! I knew you were a dog!"

A good black man isn't insecure about his woman having great
achievements. In fact, he is her number one supporter and becomes disappointed with
her when she begins to lose herself, especially for the sake of not
hurting his feelings, or only wanting to make him happy. His happiness
comes with seeing her excel in her dreams and accomplishing her goals.
For as she excels and is exalted, a good woman will bring her good man
right along with her.

A good black man doesn't necessarily give you a huge birthday or
Valentine's gift. He shows his love in the ways that are comfortable to
him. Don't judge him by TV standards. No one is really living a fairy
tale. You'll miss out on y our own fairy tale by buying into the myth
that our black men are no good. It's just not true.

A good black man is a man of his word. He says what he means and means
what he says. His word is his bond. He never leaves you wondering if
he is going to call or show up - he is dependable.

A good black man has a love and a heart for his Higher Power. As his
relationship and love with that Higher Power grows so will his
relationship and love with and for you grow. So remember ladies, that a good man needs a good woman which in return keeps him grounded and focussed on true love. Admire him for what he is and has to offer instead of what he isn't and does not have to give. Unselfishness is the key to an undying relationship. Take a look around and take notice of a good BLACK MAN.............Be safe and stay humble as you are so beautiful and blessed.........By Tyrone Alexander

Report1) A REAL MAN respects his mother and places his family first.
2.) A REAL MAN RAISES HIS KIDS, not JUST out of pocket either.
3.) A REAL MAN supports his woman to develop herself.
4.) A REAL MAN doesn't worry about what others depict as a real man. Walk in his shoes first and then tell him what makes him A REAL MAN.
5.) A REAL MAN Does His Best Not To Break Promises
6.) A REAL MAN calls you beautiful, not hot, sexy, or fine as ..........
8.) A REAL MAN CALLS YOU on a daily basis - NO MATTER HOW BUSY OR TIRED HE IS.
9.) A REAL MAN looks past what he's heard about you or what his friends think of you. 10.) A REAL MAN wants to spend as much time as he can with you & won't get sick of you.
11.) A REAL MAN comes over just to watch movies with you.
12.) A REAL MAN kisses you on the forehead just because.
13.) A REAL MAN doesn't tell you what he thinks you want to hear. He tells you what's real.
14.) A REAL MAN should be treated like one.
15.) A REAL MAN doesn't ask questions when you say you need something....him, sex, money, or a bed to sleep in.
16.) A REAL MAN lets others know How He Feels About you.
17.) A REAL MAN doesn't play games!!!!!!!!!!!
18.) A REAL MAN doesn't leave you to go and hang out with his friends, if he hasn't seen you in a week and then call you at 4 in the morning because he needs some loving.
19.) A REAL MAN doesn't deny you.
20.) A REAL MAN doesn't just think about sex.
21.) A REAL MAN Doesn't Judge the book by the cover.
22.) A REAL MAN wouldn't use his friendship card to get what he wants.
23.) A REAL MAN knows the difference between a REAL WOMAN and a random girl.
24.) A REAL MAN won't degrade a woman with words nor will he ever put his hands on her in anger.
25.) A REAL MAN sends you flowers Just Because.