I am Honest, trustworthy, and have morals and standards that i live by. I am seeking the same in a companion/soulmate. Dont know if i will find it here, But i thought i would give it a shot. I have'nt lost anything in bars lol.. I do occassionly like to go to an up scale club for dancing, music, Or a comedy club.I enjoy camping, fishing, just have not done alot of these things in the past year and a half. I am looking for some who has the same intrests, enjoys life and likes to laugh alot! but knows the serious moments as well. Would also be open to her bringing in new things we both could enjoy in our lives as well, and i would the same.(Sorry exact punctuation has never been my strong point its kinda hit and miss ..lol) Always willing to try something new. Oh did i mention you must like kids? I have at home 8yr-f and 19yr-m in which will always be important. However im itellegent enough to balance things like they should be if i meet someone speacial and they have kids or if they dont have kids as far spending quality time. My heroes in life is anyone who can/will help a child in need. I do have alot more to say and im sure you do as well, just not here, these are the exciting times and moments of discovering things about your mate i do look forward to exploring more of my mate on a daily basis and will always strive to keep things interesting and fresh i do not like a stagnant pond! If you are in a situation where you are unable to take care of yourself and yours then take care of that first before you start looking for anyone. I work hard and long for me and mine and i would expect the same out of her. If interested after this point contact me and we will go from there! Please have fairly recent photo's i can view your 10 year old photo's later when sharring photo albums, The scheme i will sucker them in with these old photo's and after we meet they probably will like me anyway just doesnt work for me, If anything you will have lost me right away due to the act of lie itself even if did like you, be yourself and either it works or it dont.

I like the quite places for dinner so we can hear one another, (those are hard to come by any more the waitresses are working really hard for their tip and there is too many interruptions not saying i blame them but for a first date it can be aggrivating), Movies are for couples who have been together once in there you have to be quite! so there is no getting to know one another in there..lol However i will figure something out the lake and a picnic is always a good choice! SAnd best of all you dont have to dress up this can come later i think we should always be ourselves and we have plenty of time to see how we look all dressed up later when im ready to show you to the public..lol

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