Hello: My love-life sucks:(

I would love one honestly passionate woman with the same problem for a mutual, monogamous, long term solution:)

I like walking, intelligent conversation, joking around, writing, cooking, motorcycling, fixing other people's computer issues, fishing, camping, and long pleasant drives with good company, and my privacy.

I have become a big man for my height. Having let myself go, I am on my way back. Those inches and that weight are going back to normal, so you will just have to take me now or miss out on the new me later:)

Taste in music? I like the best of any type, blues, jazz, classical, tribal, rock, C/W, anything really as long it is on good equipment, or live and not too erratic or the other extreme of same beat ad nauseam

Dancing? Yes I like to dance. It’s been a while but I am good at the good ol two-step (C/W) and a good teacher, so I have been told.

This should not be too complicated. We find things to like in each other, ignore the rest and bring out the best in each other.

That is if we can get past the first test of being able to stand the sight of each other. If we can, we go on to try facing the thought of each other as our lover. We can laugh or faint or cry as the case may be. And if we just can’t stand it, we can try thinking the thought again once we have the lights out and bags over both our heads. If we still can’t stand the thought of it, we can get so drunk we don’t care, can’t see and won’t remember. It’s a joke, I am joking, relax, and take it easy I am not serious.

All kidding aside, I would like to get decisions made one way or the other then and there, at our first meeting. We will know at the first one if we want a second. I don’t do serial dating or date multiple partners.

Having a live lover is what having a love life is about and is what makes it possible, yes? And that is what POF is for, yes? By lover I mean lover, not just sex partner. There is a difference worthy of notice. I want you to know that I know and appreciate the difference. I expect you to know and appreciate the deference too.

And though I have been loaded down with much painful loss I still know the life force of both individuals is nurtured (or not) in this thing we call a love life. And so, I am now seeing it is a matter of survival as much as it is a mater of romance that I do get out of the condition of being single and back into a condition of a close loving relationship with a member of the opposite sex again. If you are aware the same applies to you, we can start there with at least that in common.

Divorce sucks, being single sucks, having a great love life sucks, when lost. So, there is something extra I am going for this time. This time it is the continual creation of a love partnership as much or more out of the bed as in it. The continual creation and care of that kind and quality of love relationship, while not a new thought for me, is a renewed understanding backed by painful experience of what happens when it is not created continually, cared for, nurtured, protected by both.

To tell you the truth, I look forward to another chance at love. I know I sure could use some TLC and I know how much I need to give it. It will take some time, or like magic, take no time at all, but let’s get at it. Let’s do the meet and greet game and see. Like the lottery, if you don’t play you can’t win.

A love life, any love life is better than no love life. But I am not after just any love life. Not just something to make life seem more worthwhile. What I propose will be a joy to create, something to splurge on, a thing to admire and be admired. It’s nothing new really. It’s been going on since, well forever. It’s just a matter of doing it again and doing it better than before so this creation does stand the test time, this time.

First date? Relax; it’s not as if caution is being thrown to the wind here. We get together for some coffee or a picnic somewhere nice and public but where we can talk freely with the above purpose in mind. And we can enjoy the process, whatever the outcome.

If you have read this far and liked it, give me an email and let’s see.